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CYBERMATRIMONIALS
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Christina Pinto
2005-07-03 08:56:46 UTC
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Parents of well educated young lady (26 years, Goan, RC) seeks
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Goan RC lady, currently based in Dubai - She is intelligent, attractive,
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mature, down-to-earth professional person and house proud. She is
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love, respect and concern for each other. If you are a like minded
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Goan RC Brahmin spinster 34 years of age, slim fair, homely, MA in
English Literature, teacher by profession, well settled and only daughter
seeks Bachelors from India or Abroad who are well settled.Caste and
community no bar.Please reply with particulars and photograph to
ourfuturepartner2005 at yahoo.co.uk


Goan Roman Catholic female 34 years old living in Australia. I am good
natured, good hearted, educated and easy to get along with. Ideally
you would have similar qualities, good sense of humour and willing to
live in Australia. Please send your photo and contact on
carpe_diem1230 at hotmail.com


RC Goan Parents invite alliance for their daughter, 35, 5 feet,
graduate fair, sweet, independent,homely, working abroad in the Gulf
with good family values and good family background seeking for
well-settled goan bachelors. Note the girl is coming down in mid
August- Sep. Contact email address at lingoa70 at yahoo.com or Goa
res. -832 2298653


R.C. Spinster, 44 yrs. old, B.sc. graduate, tall, slim, fair, caring and
loving, simple & fun-loving, working as an Officer for L.I.C. in Mumbai.
Would prefer a partner who has similar qualities and age preferred upto
48/49 yrs. Reply can be sent to ophelia_mendoza at yahoo.com.


I'm looking out for a soul-mate for a dear friend, who had a brief marriage
annulled - 30/F, great sense of humour, is good looking, educated, loves
books, children, animals and is currently working as a PA in an MNC
in Goa - In a mate is looking for an educated, well-read, outgoing Goan
RC. He should be open minded, with a good sense of humour and must
have strong family values. If interested, please write in giving details
to: savika_f at yahoo.com"


Spinster 27, employed, seeking suitable match. Parents of a well qualified
27 year old Goan Roman Catholic spinster, 5.3", fair complexion, homely,
from a respectable family and employed in Goa seeks matrimonial alliance
with educated well settled Roman Catholic Goan bachelors, living either
in India or abroad. Interested parents or bachelors could reply to
goanf27 at hotmail.com.


Wanted well settled goan bachelor 31 - 35 yrs. for well settled goan
spinster 30 yrs., M.A., CAIIB, working for a Bank in Bombay. Please
forward details to: sherwinferns at yahoo.com


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Male 27 , from Panjim Goa, self employed , looking for all types of
relationships contact me at hazephase at gmail.com


Goan Bachelor age 38 years, well educated and well settled, residing in
Canada seeking a suitable life partner preferably from Canada/US. If
interested kindly write to a_travas at yahoo.com for more details


Seeking a suitable match for my brother 31 yrs: Height 5.6ft, very fair
Working in the Middle East as Computer Engineer with good character,
very loving, Caring and Socialise. Seeking a US resident Girl of Goan
origin, she should be fair loving and from respectable family background.
Early marriage. Please Contact me: evincy at yahoo.com or
necyrego at hotmail.com


Goan male, Roman Catholic, living in Australia. I am a 40 year old,
Goan, Roman Catholic, sincere, honest, hardworking and genuine guy
who works and lives in Australia. I am looking for a good natured,
sincere woman who has similar attributes and would be willing to
relocate to Australia. Look forward to hearing from you at
karma1817 at hotmail.com


I'm a Goan Christian, US based (Green Card), 36/5'9" graduate in
Engg., from REC. Where looks are concerned I'll let you be the judge.
Presently working in Washington DC and I have been in the USA for
the last 6 years. A good communicator and an outgoing person with
strong moral background. Worked in Bombay for 6 years before
relocating to the US in 1997. My recent pic is available at
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RC Goan in upper 30's post-graduate cum professional, well
positioned in Gulf, financially well sound, excellent remuneration
by Indian and Gulf standards, independent with own house, well
balanced, pleasing personality and cheerful disposition, non-smoker
and teetotaller, family oriented seeks affectionate pleasing lady with
sober habits, good social values, reliable and wishing to start a family.
Status, religion, age and caste no bar for right match. Contact
affectionately_yours2005 at yahoo.com


Alliance invited from RC Working girls for a goan boy aged 37 years,
settled in Mumbai and working for a travel agency. He is 5.4". Please
contact on 91 ( 22) 28117695


I'm looking out for a Goan RC spinster, 30-35yrs, Slim, 5'2" to 5'5",
average good looks, graduate, homely, likes cooking, god-fearing &
adjusting nature. For my Brother 37 yrs, 5'11",fair complexion, 65kgs,
graduate, works for Indian AirForce, Loves sports & reading.
Interested Parties Please Contact me at maryanne_masc at hotmail.com


My name is Nnitin, I am from Goa, 28 yrs old currently working in
Africa in a construction company as mechanical engineer. Iintreseted
to find a Hindu girl between the age 21 to 26 for marriage. Please
contactd nitaru_77 at yahoo.co.in.

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jose colaco
2005-07-04 03:35:55 UTC
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From: "Christina Pinto" <christina at goanet.org>
Subject: [Goanet]CYBERMATRIMONIALS
Date: Sun, 3 Jul 2005 16:24:23 +1000
Goan RC Brahmin spinster 34 years of age, slim fair, homely, MA in English
Literature, teacher by profession, well settled and only daughter seeks
Bachelors from India or Abroad who are well settled.Caste and community no
bar.Please reply with particulars and photograph to
ourfuturepartner2005 at yahoo.co.uk

=====


I hope that we would discourage this type of caste propagation within Goan
lists

just my view

jc

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Aloysius D'Souza
2005-07-04 17:56:30 UTC
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If "caste & community no bar" why does she specify that she is "Brahmin"????

----- Original Message -----
From: "jose colaco" <colaco_2 at hotmail.com>
To: <goanet at goanet.org>
Cc: <christina at goanet.org>; <Goa-Goans at yahoogroups.com>
Sent: Monday, July 04, 2005 12:44 AM
Subject: RE: [Goanet]CYBERMATRIMONIALS and Goan RC Brahmin spinster


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| >From: "Christina Pinto" <christina at goanet.org>
|
| >Subject: [Goanet]CYBERMATRIMONIALS
| >Date: Sun, 3 Jul 2005 16:24:23 +1000
|
|
| Goan RC Brahmin spinster 34 years of age, slim fair, homely, MA in English
| Literature, teacher by profession, well settled and only daughter seeks
| Bachelors from India or Abroad who are well settled.Caste and community no
| bar.Please reply with particulars and photograph to
| ourfuturepartner2005 at yahoo.co.uk
|
| =====
|
|
| I hope that we would discourage this type of caste propagation within Goan
| lists
|
| just my view
|
| jc
|
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Aloysius D'Souza
2005-07-04 17:56:30 UTC
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If "caste & community no bar" why does she specify that she is "Brahmin"????

----- Original Message -----
From: "jose colaco" <colaco_2 at hotmail.com>
To: <goanet at goanet.org>
Cc: <christina at goanet.org>; <Goa-Goans at yahoogroups.com>
Sent: Monday, July 04, 2005 12:44 AM
Subject: RE: [Goanet]CYBERMATRIMONIALS and Goan RC Brahmin spinster


|
|
| >From: "Christina Pinto" <christina at goanet.org>
|
| >Subject: [Goanet]CYBERMATRIMONIALS
| >Date: Sun, 3 Jul 2005 16:24:23 +1000
|
|
| Goan RC Brahmin spinster 34 years of age, slim fair, homely, MA in English
| Literature, teacher by profession, well settled and only daughter seeks
| Bachelors from India or Abroad who are well settled.Caste and community no
| bar.Please reply with particulars and photograph to
| ourfuturepartner2005 at yahoo.co.uk
|
| =====
|
|
| I hope that we would discourage this type of caste propagation within Goan
| lists
|
| just my view
|
| jc
|
| _________________________________________________________________
| Is your PC infected? Get a FREE online computer virus scan from McAfee?
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Aloysius D'Souza
2005-07-04 17:56:30 UTC
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If "caste & community no bar" why does she specify that she is "Brahmin"????

----- Original Message -----
From: "jose colaco" <colaco_2 at hotmail.com>
To: <goanet at goanet.org>
Cc: <christina at goanet.org>; <Goa-Goans at yahoogroups.com>
Sent: Monday, July 04, 2005 12:44 AM
Subject: RE: [Goanet]CYBERMATRIMONIALS and Goan RC Brahmin spinster


|
|
| >From: "Christina Pinto" <christina at goanet.org>
|
| >Subject: [Goanet]CYBERMATRIMONIALS
| >Date: Sun, 3 Jul 2005 16:24:23 +1000
|
|
| Goan RC Brahmin spinster 34 years of age, slim fair, homely, MA in English
| Literature, teacher by profession, well settled and only daughter seeks
| Bachelors from India or Abroad who are well settled.Caste and community no
| bar.Please reply with particulars and photograph to
| ourfuturepartner2005 at yahoo.co.uk
|
| =====
|
|
| I hope that we would discourage this type of caste propagation within Goan
| lists
|
| just my view
|
| jc
|
| _________________________________________________________________
| Is your PC infected? Get a FREE online computer virus scan from McAfee?
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Aloysius D'Souza
2005-07-04 17:56:30 UTC
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If "caste & community no bar" why does she specify that she is "Brahmin"????

----- Original Message -----
From: "jose colaco" <colaco_2 at hotmail.com>
To: <goanet at goanet.org>
Cc: <christina at goanet.org>; <Goa-Goans at yahoogroups.com>
Sent: Monday, July 04, 2005 12:44 AM
Subject: RE: [Goanet]CYBERMATRIMONIALS and Goan RC Brahmin spinster


|
|
| >From: "Christina Pinto" <christina at goanet.org>
|
| >Subject: [Goanet]CYBERMATRIMONIALS
| >Date: Sun, 3 Jul 2005 16:24:23 +1000
|
|
| Goan RC Brahmin spinster 34 years of age, slim fair, homely, MA in English
| Literature, teacher by profession, well settled and only daughter seeks
| Bachelors from India or Abroad who are well settled.Caste and community no
| bar.Please reply with particulars and photograph to
| ourfuturepartner2005 at yahoo.co.uk
|
| =====
|
|
| I hope that we would discourage this type of caste propagation within Goan
| lists
|
| just my view
|
| jc
|
| _________________________________________________________________
| Is your PC infected? Get a FREE online computer virus scan from McAfee?
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Aloysius D'Souza
2005-07-04 17:56:30 UTC
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If "caste & community no bar" why does she specify that she is "Brahmin"????

----- Original Message -----
From: "jose colaco" <colaco_2 at hotmail.com>
To: <goanet at goanet.org>
Cc: <christina at goanet.org>; <Goa-Goans at yahoogroups.com>
Sent: Monday, July 04, 2005 12:44 AM
Subject: RE: [Goanet]CYBERMATRIMONIALS and Goan RC Brahmin spinster


|
|
| >From: "Christina Pinto" <christina at goanet.org>
|
| >Subject: [Goanet]CYBERMATRIMONIALS
| >Date: Sun, 3 Jul 2005 16:24:23 +1000
|
|
| Goan RC Brahmin spinster 34 years of age, slim fair, homely, MA in English
| Literature, teacher by profession, well settled and only daughter seeks
| Bachelors from India or Abroad who are well settled.Caste and community no
| bar.Please reply with particulars and photograph to
| ourfuturepartner2005 at yahoo.co.uk
|
| =====
|
|
| I hope that we would discourage this type of caste propagation within Goan
| lists
|
| just my view
|
| jc
|
| _________________________________________________________________
| Is your PC infected? Get a FREE online computer virus scan from McAfee?
| Security. http://clinic.mcafee.com/clinic/ibuy/campaign.asp?cid=3963
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Aloysius D'Souza
2005-07-04 17:56:30 UTC
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If "caste & community no bar" why does she specify that she is "Brahmin"????

----- Original Message -----
From: "jose colaco" <colaco_2 at hotmail.com>
To: <goanet at goanet.org>
Cc: <christina at goanet.org>; <Goa-Goans at yahoogroups.com>
Sent: Monday, July 04, 2005 12:44 AM
Subject: RE: [Goanet]CYBERMATRIMONIALS and Goan RC Brahmin spinster


|
|
| >From: "Christina Pinto" <christina at goanet.org>
|
| >Subject: [Goanet]CYBERMATRIMONIALS
| >Date: Sun, 3 Jul 2005 16:24:23 +1000
|
|
| Goan RC Brahmin spinster 34 years of age, slim fair, homely, MA in English
| Literature, teacher by profession, well settled and only daughter seeks
| Bachelors from India or Abroad who are well settled.Caste and community no
| bar.Please reply with particulars and photograph to
| ourfuturepartner2005 at yahoo.co.uk
|
| =====
|
|
| I hope that we would discourage this type of caste propagation within Goan
| lists
|
| just my view
|
| jc
|
| _________________________________________________________________
| Is your PC infected? Get a FREE online computer virus scan from McAfee?
| Security. http://clinic.mcafee.com/clinic/ibuy/campaign.asp?cid=3963
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Aloysius D'Souza
2005-07-04 17:56:30 UTC
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If "caste & community no bar" why does she specify that she is "Brahmin"????

----- Original Message -----
From: "jose colaco" <colaco_2 at hotmail.com>
To: <goanet at goanet.org>
Cc: <christina at goanet.org>; <Goa-Goans at yahoogroups.com>
Sent: Monday, July 04, 2005 12:44 AM
Subject: RE: [Goanet]CYBERMATRIMONIALS and Goan RC Brahmin spinster


|
|
| >From: "Christina Pinto" <christina at goanet.org>
|
| >Subject: [Goanet]CYBERMATRIMONIALS
| >Date: Sun, 3 Jul 2005 16:24:23 +1000
|
|
| Goan RC Brahmin spinster 34 years of age, slim fair, homely, MA in English
| Literature, teacher by profession, well settled and only daughter seeks
| Bachelors from India or Abroad who are well settled.Caste and community no
| bar.Please reply with particulars and photograph to
| ourfuturepartner2005 at yahoo.co.uk
|
| =====
|
|
| I hope that we would discourage this type of caste propagation within Goan
| lists
|
| just my view
|
| jc
|
| _________________________________________________________________
| Is your PC infected? Get a FREE online computer virus scan from McAfee?
| Security. http://clinic.mcafee.com/clinic/ibuy/campaign.asp?cid=3963
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George Pinto
2005-07-05 04:12:15 UTC
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Why are so many married men reading the Cybermatrimonials in such detail? Most of those who have
commented on the 'RC Brahmin' [SIC] post are married men.

Hmmm..... ;-)))

Regards,
George
Gabe Menezes
2005-07-05 10:10:56 UTC
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Post by George Pinto
Why are so many married men reading the Cybermatrimonials in such detail? Most of those who have
commented on the 'RC Brahmin' [SIC] post are married men.
Hmmm..... ;-)))
Regards,
George
RESPONSE: I was thinking the same ;-) I had a prepared answer. In fact
I didn't read it except when put up and posted by Jose.

Perhaps he is looking for someone suitable for his kin?
--
Cheers,

Gabe Menezes.
London, England
Gabe Menezes
2005-07-05 10:10:56 UTC
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Post by George Pinto
Why are so many married men reading the Cybermatrimonials in such detail? Most of those who have
commented on the 'RC Brahmin' [SIC] post are married men.
Hmmm..... ;-)))
Regards,
George
RESPONSE: I was thinking the same ;-) I had a prepared answer. In fact
I didn't read it except when put up and posted by Jose.

Perhaps he is looking for someone suitable for his kin?
--
Cheers,

Gabe Menezes.
London, England
Gabe Menezes
2005-07-05 10:10:56 UTC
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Post by George Pinto
Why are so many married men reading the Cybermatrimonials in such detail? Most of those who have
commented on the 'RC Brahmin' [SIC] post are married men.
Hmmm..... ;-)))
Regards,
George
RESPONSE: I was thinking the same ;-) I had a prepared answer. In fact
I didn't read it except when put up and posted by Jose.

Perhaps he is looking for someone suitable for his kin?
--
Cheers,

Gabe Menezes.
London, England
Gabe Menezes
2005-07-05 10:10:56 UTC
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Post by George Pinto
Why are so many married men reading the Cybermatrimonials in such detail? Most of those who have
commented on the 'RC Brahmin' [SIC] post are married men.
Hmmm..... ;-)))
Regards,
George
RESPONSE: I was thinking the same ;-) I had a prepared answer. In fact
I didn't read it except when put up and posted by Jose.

Perhaps he is looking for someone suitable for his kin?
--
Cheers,

Gabe Menezes.
London, England
Gabe Menezes
2005-07-05 10:10:56 UTC
Permalink
Post by George Pinto
Why are so many married men reading the Cybermatrimonials in such detail? Most of those who have
commented on the 'RC Brahmin' [SIC] post are married men.
Hmmm..... ;-)))
Regards,
George
RESPONSE: I was thinking the same ;-) I had a prepared answer. In fact
I didn't read it except when put up and posted by Jose.

Perhaps he is looking for someone suitable for his kin?
--
Cheers,

Gabe Menezes.
London, England
Gabe Menezes
2005-07-05 10:10:56 UTC
Permalink
Post by George Pinto
Why are so many married men reading the Cybermatrimonials in such detail? Most of those who have
commented on the 'RC Brahmin' [SIC] post are married men.
Hmmm..... ;-)))
Regards,
George
RESPONSE: I was thinking the same ;-) I had a prepared answer. In fact
I didn't read it except when put up and posted by Jose.

Perhaps he is looking for someone suitable for his kin?
--
Cheers,

Gabe Menezes.
London, England
Alfred de Tavares
2005-07-05 07:15:35 UTC
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From: Aloysius D'Souza <aloysius at bom1.vsnl.net.in>
If "caste & community no bar" why does she specify that she is
"Brahmin"????
Elementary, my dear Aloysius, quite so...

Being a conscientious young lady she refuses to become a victim of
inverted discrimination:

Far from flaunting the caste which circumstances beyond her control have
embarrassed her with, she mentions it to give brahmin candidates, that may
meet her requisites but may fecklessly refrain from applying unsure of her
social status, fair bidding chance.

Alfred de T
luis rodrigues
2005-07-06 01:57:24 UTC
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Hues and cries over a poor dame's request for a 'RC
Brahmin", now what would you say for the
advertisements that appears in local newspapers for
recruitment's in Government Services.

Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain quota
is reserved for schedule caste and schedule tribes. Is
Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?

Can anybody give me an explanation on this please!!

Regards,

Luis Rodrigues
Chumbel / Dubai



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halur rasho
2005-07-06 07:25:31 UTC
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Are you serious? Reservation for scheduled
caste/tribes is to undo (in a small way) for
discrimination they suffered for centuries. A Brahmin
who proclaims his caste as a sign of superiority is
indulging in discrimination, albeit with much less
effect today. As for the strange hybrid known as RC
Brahmin, the less said of such ridiculous creatures
the better...
Post by luis rodrigues
Hues and cries over a poor dame's request for a 'RC
Brahmin", now what would you say for the
advertisements that appears in local newspapers for
recruitment's in Government Services.
Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain
quota
is reserved for schedule caste and schedule tribes.
Is
Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?
Can anybody give me an explanation on this please!!
Regards,
Luis Rodrigues
Chumbel / Dubai
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Frederick Noronha (FN)
2005-07-06 10:35:43 UTC
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Do we accept then that there's a difference between affirmative
action -- howsoever ineffective, inadequate and incorrectly applied --
and casteism? Or is it all the same? FN
Post by luis rodrigues
Hues and cries over a poor dame's request for a 'RC
Brahmin", now what would you say for the
advertisements that appears in local newspapers for
recruitment's in Government Services.
Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain quota
is reserved for schedule caste and schedule tribes. Is
Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?
Can anybody give me an explanation on this please!!
Luis Rodrigues
Chumbel / Dubai
Aloysius D'Souza
2005-07-06 16:41:01 UTC
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Dear Goans Everywhere,

There is a major difference here --

Government is trying to improve the lot of scheduled castes and scheduled tribes -- who for all these years were deprived of all
facilities for study and economic improvement --

Whereas when we "Christians" talk of 'CASTE' in matrimonial advts we are trying to perpetuate this discrimination with a view to
keeping the so called "LOWER CASTES" where they were and where these "Christians" would like them to remain!!!

I look forward to the day when we Goans -- Christians, Hindus, Muslims and any other religions -- can say that we are Goans
first and foremost and will do our very best for our compatriots with a view to gradually improving the whole state --

Let us not be ' GOAN CRABS " -- pulling each other DOWN !!!!!!!

Cheers

Aloysius

----- Original Message -----
From: "Frederick Noronha (FN)" <fred at bytesforall.org>
To: <goanet at goanet.org>
Sent: Wednesday, July 06, 2005 12:15 PM
Subject: [Goanet]Re: CYBERMATRIMONIALS


| Do we accept then that there's a difference between affirmative
| action -- howsoever ineffective, inadequate and incorrectly applied --
| and casteism? Or is it all the same? FN
|
| > Hues and cries over a poor dame's request for a 'RC
| > Brahmin", now what would you say for the
| > advertisements that appears in local newspapers for
| > recruitment's in Government Services.
|
| > Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain quota
| > is reserved for schedule caste and schedule tribes. Is
| > Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?
|
| > Can anybody give me an explanation on this please!!
| > Luis Rodrigues
| > Chumbel / Dubai
|
|
Aloysius D'Souza
2005-07-06 16:41:01 UTC
Permalink
Dear Goans Everywhere,

There is a major difference here --

Government is trying to improve the lot of scheduled castes and scheduled tribes -- who for all these years were deprived of all
facilities for study and economic improvement --

Whereas when we "Christians" talk of 'CASTE' in matrimonial advts we are trying to perpetuate this discrimination with a view to
keeping the so called "LOWER CASTES" where they were and where these "Christians" would like them to remain!!!

I look forward to the day when we Goans -- Christians, Hindus, Muslims and any other religions -- can say that we are Goans
first and foremost and will do our very best for our compatriots with a view to gradually improving the whole state --

Let us not be ' GOAN CRABS " -- pulling each other DOWN !!!!!!!

Cheers

Aloysius

----- Original Message -----
From: "Frederick Noronha (FN)" <fred at bytesforall.org>
To: <goanet at goanet.org>
Sent: Wednesday, July 06, 2005 12:15 PM
Subject: [Goanet]Re: CYBERMATRIMONIALS


| Do we accept then that there's a difference between affirmative
| action -- howsoever ineffective, inadequate and incorrectly applied --
| and casteism? Or is it all the same? FN
|
| > Hues and cries over a poor dame's request for a 'RC
| > Brahmin", now what would you say for the
| > advertisements that appears in local newspapers for
| > recruitment's in Government Services.
|
| > Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain quota
| > is reserved for schedule caste and schedule tribes. Is
| > Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?
|
| > Can anybody give me an explanation on this please!!
| > Luis Rodrigues
| > Chumbel / Dubai
|
|
Aloysius D'Souza
2005-07-06 16:41:01 UTC
Permalink
Dear Goans Everywhere,

There is a major difference here --

Government is trying to improve the lot of scheduled castes and scheduled tribes -- who for all these years were deprived of all
facilities for study and economic improvement --

Whereas when we "Christians" talk of 'CASTE' in matrimonial advts we are trying to perpetuate this discrimination with a view to
keeping the so called "LOWER CASTES" where they were and where these "Christians" would like them to remain!!!

I look forward to the day when we Goans -- Christians, Hindus, Muslims and any other religions -- can say that we are Goans
first and foremost and will do our very best for our compatriots with a view to gradually improving the whole state --

Let us not be ' GOAN CRABS " -- pulling each other DOWN !!!!!!!

Cheers

Aloysius

----- Original Message -----
From: "Frederick Noronha (FN)" <fred at bytesforall.org>
To: <goanet at goanet.org>
Sent: Wednesday, July 06, 2005 12:15 PM
Subject: [Goanet]Re: CYBERMATRIMONIALS


| Do we accept then that there's a difference between affirmative
| action -- howsoever ineffective, inadequate and incorrectly applied --
| and casteism? Or is it all the same? FN
|
| > Hues and cries over a poor dame's request for a 'RC
| > Brahmin", now what would you say for the
| > advertisements that appears in local newspapers for
| > recruitment's in Government Services.
|
| > Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain quota
| > is reserved for schedule caste and schedule tribes. Is
| > Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?
|
| > Can anybody give me an explanation on this please!!
| > Luis Rodrigues
| > Chumbel / Dubai
|
|
Aloysius D'Souza
2005-07-06 16:41:01 UTC
Permalink
Dear Goans Everywhere,

There is a major difference here --

Government is trying to improve the lot of scheduled castes and scheduled tribes -- who for all these years were deprived of all
facilities for study and economic improvement --

Whereas when we "Christians" talk of 'CASTE' in matrimonial advts we are trying to perpetuate this discrimination with a view to
keeping the so called "LOWER CASTES" where they were and where these "Christians" would like them to remain!!!

I look forward to the day when we Goans -- Christians, Hindus, Muslims and any other religions -- can say that we are Goans
first and foremost and will do our very best for our compatriots with a view to gradually improving the whole state --

Let us not be ' GOAN CRABS " -- pulling each other DOWN !!!!!!!

Cheers

Aloysius

----- Original Message -----
From: "Frederick Noronha (FN)" <fred at bytesforall.org>
To: <goanet at goanet.org>
Sent: Wednesday, July 06, 2005 12:15 PM
Subject: [Goanet]Re: CYBERMATRIMONIALS


| Do we accept then that there's a difference between affirmative
| action -- howsoever ineffective, inadequate and incorrectly applied --
| and casteism? Or is it all the same? FN
|
| > Hues and cries over a poor dame's request for a 'RC
| > Brahmin", now what would you say for the
| > advertisements that appears in local newspapers for
| > recruitment's in Government Services.
|
| > Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain quota
| > is reserved for schedule caste and schedule tribes. Is
| > Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?
|
| > Can anybody give me an explanation on this please!!
| > Luis Rodrigues
| > Chumbel / Dubai
|
|
Aloysius D'Souza
2005-07-06 16:41:01 UTC
Permalink
Dear Goans Everywhere,

There is a major difference here --

Government is trying to improve the lot of scheduled castes and scheduled tribes -- who for all these years were deprived of all
facilities for study and economic improvement --

Whereas when we "Christians" talk of 'CASTE' in matrimonial advts we are trying to perpetuate this discrimination with a view to
keeping the so called "LOWER CASTES" where they were and where these "Christians" would like them to remain!!!

I look forward to the day when we Goans -- Christians, Hindus, Muslims and any other religions -- can say that we are Goans
first and foremost and will do our very best for our compatriots with a view to gradually improving the whole state --

Let us not be ' GOAN CRABS " -- pulling each other DOWN !!!!!!!

Cheers

Aloysius

----- Original Message -----
From: "Frederick Noronha (FN)" <fred at bytesforall.org>
To: <goanet at goanet.org>
Sent: Wednesday, July 06, 2005 12:15 PM
Subject: [Goanet]Re: CYBERMATRIMONIALS


| Do we accept then that there's a difference between affirmative
| action -- howsoever ineffective, inadequate and incorrectly applied --
| and casteism? Or is it all the same? FN
|
| > Hues and cries over a poor dame's request for a 'RC
| > Brahmin", now what would you say for the
| > advertisements that appears in local newspapers for
| > recruitment's in Government Services.
|
| > Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain quota
| > is reserved for schedule caste and schedule tribes. Is
| > Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?
|
| > Can anybody give me an explanation on this please!!
| > Luis Rodrigues
| > Chumbel / Dubai
|
|
Aloysius D'Souza
2005-07-06 16:41:01 UTC
Permalink
Dear Goans Everywhere,

There is a major difference here --

Government is trying to improve the lot of scheduled castes and scheduled tribes -- who for all these years were deprived of all
facilities for study and economic improvement --

Whereas when we "Christians" talk of 'CASTE' in matrimonial advts we are trying to perpetuate this discrimination with a view to
keeping the so called "LOWER CASTES" where they were and where these "Christians" would like them to remain!!!

I look forward to the day when we Goans -- Christians, Hindus, Muslims and any other religions -- can say that we are Goans
first and foremost and will do our very best for our compatriots with a view to gradually improving the whole state --

Let us not be ' GOAN CRABS " -- pulling each other DOWN !!!!!!!

Cheers

Aloysius

----- Original Message -----
From: "Frederick Noronha (FN)" <fred at bytesforall.org>
To: <goanet at goanet.org>
Sent: Wednesday, July 06, 2005 12:15 PM
Subject: [Goanet]Re: CYBERMATRIMONIALS


| Do we accept then that there's a difference between affirmative
| action -- howsoever ineffective, inadequate and incorrectly applied --
| and casteism? Or is it all the same? FN
|
| > Hues and cries over a poor dame's request for a 'RC
| > Brahmin", now what would you say for the
| > advertisements that appears in local newspapers for
| > recruitment's in Government Services.
|
| > Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain quota
| > is reserved for schedule caste and schedule tribes. Is
| > Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?
|
| > Can anybody give me an explanation on this please!!
| > Luis Rodrigues
| > Chumbel / Dubai
|
|
Cip Fernandes
2005-07-06 16:37:07 UTC
Permalink
Whatever,

STOP POSTING IMMEDIATELY CYBERMATRIMONIALS MENTIONING THEIR CASTES

Cip
UK

-----Original Message-----
From: goanet-admin at goanet.org [mailto:goanet-admin at goanet.org]On Behalf
Of Frederick Noronha (FN)
Sent: 06 July 2005 07:46
To: goanet at goanet.org
Subject: [Goanet]Re: CYBERMATRIMONIALS


Do we accept then that there's a difference between affirmative
action -- howsoever ineffective, inadequate and incorrectly applied --
and casteism? Or is it all the same? FN
Post by luis rodrigues
Hues and cries over a poor dame's request for a 'RC
Brahmin", now what would you say for the
advertisements that appears in local newspapers for
recruitment's in Government Services.
Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain quota
is reserved for schedule caste and schedule tribes. Is
Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?
Can anybody give me an explanation on this please!!
Luis Rodrigues
Chumbel / Dubai
luis rodrigues
2005-07-06 16:38:06 UTC
Permalink
I don't agree to this. The discrimination were meted
out to the ancestors of SC/ST. But why the benefit is
given to the present generation. And if the
discrimination were carried out by the RC Brahmin for
those centuries, then why the hatrate towards the new
generation of RC Brahmin.

You visit any Govt. office in Goa and see the attitude
of these SC/ST employees. In front of them you feel
that you are a SC/ST. So you decide if this "UNDO"
system of yours should be carried on.

In my opinion, if we are against casteism, it should
be on all basis and not on certain caste only.

Regards,

Luis Rodrigues



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Bernado Colaco
2005-07-07 08:24:22 UTC
Permalink
Luis has made some interesting comments on the caste
issue. In 61 Goans were supposed to have been
emancipated from the caste.

Education was for all. But why do the puppets allocate
areas for the caste system? Is this not institutional
casteism?

Where is the anti-Portuguese lobby now? Do they have a
clue as to what is happening in Goa, other than eating
watermelons from Parra?

Cornel please comment!



B. Colaco
Post by luis rodrigues
Post by luis rodrigues
Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain
quota
Post by luis rodrigues
is reserved for schedule caste and schedule
tribes. Is
Post by luis rodrigues
Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?
Can anybody give me an explanation on this
please!!
Post by luis rodrigues
Luis Rodrigues
Chumbel / Dubai
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cornel
2005-07-08 17:11:52 UTC
Permalink
Hello Bernardo,
I am sorry I have fallen well behind in my responses to Goanet posts.
However,
I feel honoured that you did want me to reply to the Cybermatrimonials issue
relating to caste. By now, I feel that Mr Luis from Kuwait has received
perfectly good answers which reflect my thinking on why caste should
definitely not feature on Goanet Cybermatrimonials. The three responses were
from Halur Rasho, Aloysisus and Fred and I really do not have more to add
for now.
Cornel
----- Original Message -----
From: "Bernado Colaco" <ole_xac at yahoo.co.uk>
To: <goanet at goanet.org>
Sent: Thursday, July 07, 2005 3:29 AM
Subject: RE: [Goanet]Re: CYBERMATRIMONIALS - Institutional casteism
Post by Bernado Colaco
Luis has made some interesting comments on the caste
issue. In 61 Goans were supposed to have been
emancipated from the caste.
Education was for all. But why do the puppets allocate
areas for the caste system? Is this not institutional
casteism?
Where is the anti-Portuguese lobby now? Do they have a
clue as to what is happening in Goa, other than eating
watermelons from Parra?
Cornel please comment!
B. Colaco
Post by luis rodrigues
Post by luis rodrigues
Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain
quota
Post by luis rodrigues
is reserved for schedule caste and schedule
tribes. Is
Post by luis rodrigues
Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?
Can anybody give me an explanation on this
please!!
Post by luis rodrigues
Luis Rodrigues
Chumbel / Dubai
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cornel
2005-07-08 17:11:52 UTC
Permalink
Hello Bernardo,
I am sorry I have fallen well behind in my responses to Goanet posts.
However,
I feel honoured that you did want me to reply to the Cybermatrimonials issue
relating to caste. By now, I feel that Mr Luis from Kuwait has received
perfectly good answers which reflect my thinking on why caste should
definitely not feature on Goanet Cybermatrimonials. The three responses were
from Halur Rasho, Aloysisus and Fred and I really do not have more to add
for now.
Cornel
----- Original Message -----
From: "Bernado Colaco" <ole_xac at yahoo.co.uk>
To: <goanet at goanet.org>
Sent: Thursday, July 07, 2005 3:29 AM
Subject: RE: [Goanet]Re: CYBERMATRIMONIALS - Institutional casteism
Post by Bernado Colaco
Luis has made some interesting comments on the caste
issue. In 61 Goans were supposed to have been
emancipated from the caste.
Education was for all. But why do the puppets allocate
areas for the caste system? Is this not institutional
casteism?
Where is the anti-Portuguese lobby now? Do they have a
clue as to what is happening in Goa, other than eating
watermelons from Parra?
Cornel please comment!
B. Colaco
Post by luis rodrigues
Post by luis rodrigues
Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain
quota
Post by luis rodrigues
is reserved for schedule caste and schedule
tribes. Is
Post by luis rodrigues
Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?
Can anybody give me an explanation on this
please!!
Post by luis rodrigues
Luis Rodrigues
Chumbel / Dubai
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cornel
2005-07-08 17:11:52 UTC
Permalink
Hello Bernardo,
I am sorry I have fallen well behind in my responses to Goanet posts.
However,
I feel honoured that you did want me to reply to the Cybermatrimonials issue
relating to caste. By now, I feel that Mr Luis from Kuwait has received
perfectly good answers which reflect my thinking on why caste should
definitely not feature on Goanet Cybermatrimonials. The three responses were
from Halur Rasho, Aloysisus and Fred and I really do not have more to add
for now.
Cornel
----- Original Message -----
From: "Bernado Colaco" <ole_xac at yahoo.co.uk>
To: <goanet at goanet.org>
Sent: Thursday, July 07, 2005 3:29 AM
Subject: RE: [Goanet]Re: CYBERMATRIMONIALS - Institutional casteism
Post by Bernado Colaco
Luis has made some interesting comments on the caste
issue. In 61 Goans were supposed to have been
emancipated from the caste.
Education was for all. But why do the puppets allocate
areas for the caste system? Is this not institutional
casteism?
Where is the anti-Portuguese lobby now? Do they have a
clue as to what is happening in Goa, other than eating
watermelons from Parra?
Cornel please comment!
B. Colaco
Post by luis rodrigues
Post by luis rodrigues
Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain
quota
Post by luis rodrigues
is reserved for schedule caste and schedule
tribes. Is
Post by luis rodrigues
Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?
Can anybody give me an explanation on this
please!!
Post by luis rodrigues
Luis Rodrigues
Chumbel / Dubai
___________________________________________________________
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cornel
2005-07-08 17:11:52 UTC
Permalink
Hello Bernardo,
I am sorry I have fallen well behind in my responses to Goanet posts.
However,
I feel honoured that you did want me to reply to the Cybermatrimonials issue
relating to caste. By now, I feel that Mr Luis from Kuwait has received
perfectly good answers which reflect my thinking on why caste should
definitely not feature on Goanet Cybermatrimonials. The three responses were
from Halur Rasho, Aloysisus and Fred and I really do not have more to add
for now.
Cornel
----- Original Message -----
From: "Bernado Colaco" <ole_xac at yahoo.co.uk>
To: <goanet at goanet.org>
Sent: Thursday, July 07, 2005 3:29 AM
Subject: RE: [Goanet]Re: CYBERMATRIMONIALS - Institutional casteism
Post by Bernado Colaco
Luis has made some interesting comments on the caste
issue. In 61 Goans were supposed to have been
emancipated from the caste.
Education was for all. But why do the puppets allocate
areas for the caste system? Is this not institutional
casteism?
Where is the anti-Portuguese lobby now? Do they have a
clue as to what is happening in Goa, other than eating
watermelons from Parra?
Cornel please comment!
B. Colaco
Post by luis rodrigues
Post by luis rodrigues
Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain
quota
Post by luis rodrigues
is reserved for schedule caste and schedule
tribes. Is
Post by luis rodrigues
Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?
Can anybody give me an explanation on this
please!!
Post by luis rodrigues
Luis Rodrigues
Chumbel / Dubai
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cornel
2005-07-08 17:11:52 UTC
Permalink
Hello Bernardo,
I am sorry I have fallen well behind in my responses to Goanet posts.
However,
I feel honoured that you did want me to reply to the Cybermatrimonials issue
relating to caste. By now, I feel that Mr Luis from Kuwait has received
perfectly good answers which reflect my thinking on why caste should
definitely not feature on Goanet Cybermatrimonials. The three responses were
from Halur Rasho, Aloysisus and Fred and I really do not have more to add
for now.
Cornel
----- Original Message -----
From: "Bernado Colaco" <ole_xac at yahoo.co.uk>
To: <goanet at goanet.org>
Sent: Thursday, July 07, 2005 3:29 AM
Subject: RE: [Goanet]Re: CYBERMATRIMONIALS - Institutional casteism
Post by Bernado Colaco
Luis has made some interesting comments on the caste
issue. In 61 Goans were supposed to have been
emancipated from the caste.
Education was for all. But why do the puppets allocate
areas for the caste system? Is this not institutional
casteism?
Where is the anti-Portuguese lobby now? Do they have a
clue as to what is happening in Goa, other than eating
watermelons from Parra?
Cornel please comment!
B. Colaco
Post by luis rodrigues
Post by luis rodrigues
Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain
quota
Post by luis rodrigues
is reserved for schedule caste and schedule
tribes. Is
Post by luis rodrigues
Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?
Can anybody give me an explanation on this
please!!
Post by luis rodrigues
Luis Rodrigues
Chumbel / Dubai
___________________________________________________________
Yahoo! Messenger - NEW crystal clear PC to PC calling worldwide with
voicemail http://uk.messenger.yahoo.com
cornel
2005-07-08 17:11:52 UTC
Permalink
Hello Bernardo,
I am sorry I have fallen well behind in my responses to Goanet posts.
However,
I feel honoured that you did want me to reply to the Cybermatrimonials issue
relating to caste. By now, I feel that Mr Luis from Kuwait has received
perfectly good answers which reflect my thinking on why caste should
definitely not feature on Goanet Cybermatrimonials. The three responses were
from Halur Rasho, Aloysisus and Fred and I really do not have more to add
for now.
Cornel
----- Original Message -----
From: "Bernado Colaco" <ole_xac at yahoo.co.uk>
To: <goanet at goanet.org>
Sent: Thursday, July 07, 2005 3:29 AM
Subject: RE: [Goanet]Re: CYBERMATRIMONIALS - Institutional casteism
Post by Bernado Colaco
Luis has made some interesting comments on the caste
issue. In 61 Goans were supposed to have been
emancipated from the caste.
Education was for all. But why do the puppets allocate
areas for the caste system? Is this not institutional
casteism?
Where is the anti-Portuguese lobby now? Do they have a
clue as to what is happening in Goa, other than eating
watermelons from Parra?
Cornel please comment!
B. Colaco
Post by luis rodrigues
Post by luis rodrigues
Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain
quota
Post by luis rodrigues
is reserved for schedule caste and schedule
tribes. Is
Post by luis rodrigues
Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?
Can anybody give me an explanation on this
please!!
Post by luis rodrigues
Luis Rodrigues
Chumbel / Dubai
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Frederick Noronha (FN)
2005-07-07 08:50:32 UTC
Permalink
This issue has gone far beyond its original subjectline. Anyway, nice to
see a lot of publicity for a venture which one was earlier associated
with. Surely, this will bring in a lot more attention to
Cybermatrimonials ;-)
From: luis rodrigues <lunica99 at yahoo.co.in>
I don't agree to this. The discrimination were meted
out to the ancestors of SC/ST. But why the benefit is
given to the present generation. And if the
discrimination were carried out by the RC Brahmin for
those centuries, then why the hatrate towards the new
generation of RC Brahmin.
Simple. Because the fact that their ancestors worked with servere
handicapps still shows up in the lives of descendents today. You don't
need a scientific survey -- though there are figures, since the 2001
Census onwards -- to show how deep the gap is.

Some communities in India live in worse deprivation than the people of
sub-Saharan Africa. Others have a lifestyle (in terms of quality of
life) that might come close to Europe!

Of course, it's not just a case of "RC Brahmin" and "SC/ST". The Dalits
(as the 'SC/ST' find it sometimes more useful to call themselves) are at
the extreme end of discrimination and social handicaps. But there are
others too (the "intermediary" castes, or the Other Backward Castes, who
have also been subject to some forms of discrminiation earlier and
affirmative action in recent times).
You visit any Govt. office in Goa and see the attitude
of these SC/ST employees. In front of them you feel
that you are a SC/ST. So you decide if this "UNDO"
system of yours should be carried on.
As far as I know, their attitude is no worse than that of the average
government servant. It has also a lot to do with stereotyping that has
led us to believe those who come in on reservations are somehow
inferior. So, a nice form of double-discrimination. Even in their
attempted urge to equality, they will be insulted.

We tend to conveniently forget that reservations -- say to the medical
or engineering college -- is only at the level of admission. All
students then have to pass the same exams!
In my opinion, if we are against casteism, it should
be on all basis and not on certain caste only.discrimination were
carried out by the RC Brahmin for
those centuries, then why the hatrate towards the new
generation of RC Brahmin.
I don't think anyone who is against casteism is criticism just the "RC
Brahmin" as you put it. This criticism of a pugnacious system need not
to be taken personally. It is an ideology or value-system that is being
questioned and criticised; not a group of people based on origins.

FN
Miguel Braganza
2005-07-07 08:51:02 UTC
Permalink
Dear Netters,

I fully agree with the good dotor. We cannot say we want to contain the
caste system , if our postings promote the subject.
........................................................................
.From: "jose colaco" colaco_2 at hotmail.com
Subject: [Goanet]CYBERMATRIMONIALS
From: "Christina Pinto" <christina at goanet.org
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=====
I hope that we would discourage this type of caste propagation within Goan
lists. jc

_________________________________________________________________

Borea casta'cho mur're

Viva Goa.
Miguel
Christina Pinto
2005-07-03 08:56:46 UTC
Permalink
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pleasant personality from India or abroad. Kindly reply with complete
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5'2" very fair 30 year old goan catholic girl, doctor working in USA,
looking for a well educated boy from a good family. please contact
ftdi at aol.com.


Goan RC lady, currently based in Dubai - She is intelligent, attractive,
has a positive attitude to life and a quiet sense of humour. She is a
mature, down-to-earth professional person and house proud. She is
35 yrs old, 5'5", a graduate, born and brought up in Mumbai and
looking for an educated Catholic bachelor a self-made man, probable
age range 35 - 42 with an inherent need to be a loving and supportive
husband, a respectful son and a doting father. She strongly believes
that marriage is a life time commitment of give and take, of mutual
love, respect and concern for each other. If you are a like minded
individual, my sister would be happy to correspond with you at
dorothie9 at yahoo.com.


Goan RC Brahmin spinster 34 years of age, slim fair, homely, MA in
English Literature, teacher by profession, well settled and only daughter
seeks Bachelors from India or Abroad who are well settled.Caste and
community no bar.Please reply with particulars and photograph to
ourfuturepartner2005 at yahoo.co.uk


Goan Roman Catholic female 34 years old living in Australia. I am good
natured, good hearted, educated and easy to get along with. Ideally
you would have similar qualities, good sense of humour and willing to
live in Australia. Please send your photo and contact on
carpe_diem1230 at hotmail.com


RC Goan Parents invite alliance for their daughter, 35, 5 feet,
graduate fair, sweet, independent,homely, working abroad in the Gulf
with good family values and good family background seeking for
well-settled goan bachelors. Note the girl is coming down in mid
August- Sep. Contact email address at lingoa70 at yahoo.com or Goa
res. -832 2298653


R.C. Spinster, 44 yrs. old, B.sc. graduate, tall, slim, fair, caring and
loving, simple & fun-loving, working as an Officer for L.I.C. in Mumbai.
Would prefer a partner who has similar qualities and age preferred upto
48/49 yrs. Reply can be sent to ophelia_mendoza at yahoo.com.


I'm looking out for a soul-mate for a dear friend, who had a brief marriage
annulled - 30/F, great sense of humour, is good looking, educated, loves
books, children, animals and is currently working as a PA in an MNC
in Goa - In a mate is looking for an educated, well-read, outgoing Goan
RC. He should be open minded, with a good sense of humour and must
have strong family values. If interested, please write in giving details
to: savika_f at yahoo.com"


Spinster 27, employed, seeking suitable match. Parents of a well qualified
27 year old Goan Roman Catholic spinster, 5.3", fair complexion, homely,
from a respectable family and employed in Goa seeks matrimonial alliance
with educated well settled Roman Catholic Goan bachelors, living either
in India or abroad. Interested parents or bachelors could reply to
goanf27 at hotmail.com.


Wanted well settled goan bachelor 31 - 35 yrs. for well settled goan
spinster 30 yrs., M.A., CAIIB, working for a Bank in Bombay. Please
forward details to: sherwinferns at yahoo.com


MALE (Looking for a Bride)

Male 27 , from Panjim Goa, self employed , looking for all types of
relationships contact me at hazephase at gmail.com


Goan Bachelor age 38 years, well educated and well settled, residing in
Canada seeking a suitable life partner preferably from Canada/US. If
interested kindly write to a_travas at yahoo.com for more details


Seeking a suitable match for my brother 31 yrs: Height 5.6ft, very fair
Working in the Middle East as Computer Engineer with good character,
very loving, Caring and Socialise. Seeking a US resident Girl of Goan
origin, she should be fair loving and from respectable family background.
Early marriage. Please Contact me: evincy at yahoo.com or
necyrego at hotmail.com


Goan male, Roman Catholic, living in Australia. I am a 40 year old,
Goan, Roman Catholic, sincere, honest, hardworking and genuine guy
who works and lives in Australia. I am looking for a good natured,
sincere woman who has similar attributes and would be willing to
relocate to Australia. Look forward to hearing from you at
karma1817 at hotmail.com


I'm a Goan Christian, US based (Green Card), 36/5'9" graduate in
Engg., from REC. Where looks are concerned I'll let you be the judge.
Presently working in Washington DC and I have been in the USA for
the last 6 years. A good communicator and an outgoing person with
strong moral background. Worked in Bombay for 6 years before
relocating to the US in 1997. My recent pic is available at
http://a1im.com//photo/hdsouza-25463.jpg and I can be reached
at hdsouza at yahoo.com


RC Goan in upper 30's post-graduate cum professional, well
positioned in Gulf, financially well sound, excellent remuneration
by Indian and Gulf standards, independent with own house, well
balanced, pleasing personality and cheerful disposition, non-smoker
and teetotaller, family oriented seeks affectionate pleasing lady with
sober habits, good social values, reliable and wishing to start a family.
Status, religion, age and caste no bar for right match. Contact
affectionately_yours2005 at yahoo.com


Alliance invited from RC Working girls for a goan boy aged 37 years,
settled in Mumbai and working for a travel agency. He is 5.4". Please
contact on 91 ( 22) 28117695


I'm looking out for a Goan RC spinster, 30-35yrs, Slim, 5'2" to 5'5",
average good looks, graduate, homely, likes cooking, god-fearing &
adjusting nature. For my Brother 37 yrs, 5'11",fair complexion, 65kgs,
graduate, works for Indian AirForce, Loves sports & reading.
Interested Parties Please Contact me at maryanne_masc at hotmail.com


My name is Nnitin, I am from Goa, 28 yrs old currently working in
Africa in a construction company as mechanical engineer. Iintreseted
to find a Hindu girl between the age 21 to 26 for marriage. Please
contactd nitaru_77 at yahoo.co.in.

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2005-07-04 03:35:55 UTC
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From: "Christina Pinto" <christina at goanet.org>
Subject: [Goanet]CYBERMATRIMONIALS
Date: Sun, 3 Jul 2005 16:24:23 +1000
Goan RC Brahmin spinster 34 years of age, slim fair, homely, MA in English
Literature, teacher by profession, well settled and only daughter seeks
Bachelors from India or Abroad who are well settled.Caste and community no
bar.Please reply with particulars and photograph to
ourfuturepartner2005 at yahoo.co.uk

=====


I hope that we would discourage this type of caste propagation within Goan
lists

just my view

jc

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2005-07-05 04:12:15 UTC
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Why are so many married men reading the Cybermatrimonials in such detail? Most of those who have
commented on the 'RC Brahmin' [SIC] post are married men.

Hmmm..... ;-)))

Regards,
George
Alfred de Tavares
2005-07-05 07:15:35 UTC
Permalink
From: Aloysius D'Souza <aloysius at bom1.vsnl.net.in>
If "caste & community no bar" why does she specify that she is
"Brahmin"????
Elementary, my dear Aloysius, quite so...

Being a conscientious young lady she refuses to become a victim of
inverted discrimination:

Far from flaunting the caste which circumstances beyond her control have
embarrassed her with, she mentions it to give brahmin candidates, that may
meet her requisites but may fecklessly refrain from applying unsure of her
social status, fair bidding chance.

Alfred de T
luis rodrigues
2005-07-06 01:57:24 UTC
Permalink
Hues and cries over a poor dame's request for a 'RC
Brahmin", now what would you say for the
advertisements that appears in local newspapers for
recruitment's in Government Services.

Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain quota
is reserved for schedule caste and schedule tribes. Is
Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?

Can anybody give me an explanation on this please!!

Regards,

Luis Rodrigues
Chumbel / Dubai



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halur rasho
2005-07-06 07:25:31 UTC
Permalink
Are you serious? Reservation for scheduled
caste/tribes is to undo (in a small way) for
discrimination they suffered for centuries. A Brahmin
who proclaims his caste as a sign of superiority is
indulging in discrimination, albeit with much less
effect today. As for the strange hybrid known as RC
Brahmin, the less said of such ridiculous creatures
the better...
Post by luis rodrigues
Hues and cries over a poor dame's request for a 'RC
Brahmin", now what would you say for the
advertisements that appears in local newspapers for
recruitment's in Government Services.
Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain
quota
is reserved for schedule caste and schedule tribes.
Is
Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?
Can anybody give me an explanation on this please!!
Regards,
Luis Rodrigues
Chumbel / Dubai
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Frederick Noronha (FN)
2005-07-06 10:35:43 UTC
Permalink
Do we accept then that there's a difference between affirmative
action -- howsoever ineffective, inadequate and incorrectly applied --
and casteism? Or is it all the same? FN
Post by luis rodrigues
Hues and cries over a poor dame's request for a 'RC
Brahmin", now what would you say for the
advertisements that appears in local newspapers for
recruitment's in Government Services.
Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain quota
is reserved for schedule caste and schedule tribes. Is
Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?
Can anybody give me an explanation on this please!!
Luis Rodrigues
Chumbel / Dubai
Cip Fernandes
2005-07-06 16:37:07 UTC
Permalink
Whatever,

STOP POSTING IMMEDIATELY CYBERMATRIMONIALS MENTIONING THEIR CASTES

Cip
UK

-----Original Message-----
From: goanet-admin at goanet.org [mailto:goanet-admin at goanet.org]On Behalf
Of Frederick Noronha (FN)
Sent: 06 July 2005 07:46
To: goanet at goanet.org
Subject: [Goanet]Re: CYBERMATRIMONIALS


Do we accept then that there's a difference between affirmative
action -- howsoever ineffective, inadequate and incorrectly applied --
and casteism? Or is it all the same? FN
Post by luis rodrigues
Hues and cries over a poor dame's request for a 'RC
Brahmin", now what would you say for the
advertisements that appears in local newspapers for
recruitment's in Government Services.
Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain quota
is reserved for schedule caste and schedule tribes. Is
Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?
Can anybody give me an explanation on this please!!
Luis Rodrigues
Chumbel / Dubai
luis rodrigues
2005-07-06 16:38:06 UTC
Permalink
I don't agree to this. The discrimination were meted
out to the ancestors of SC/ST. But why the benefit is
given to the present generation. And if the
discrimination were carried out by the RC Brahmin for
those centuries, then why the hatrate towards the new
generation of RC Brahmin.

You visit any Govt. office in Goa and see the attitude
of these SC/ST employees. In front of them you feel
that you are a SC/ST. So you decide if this "UNDO"
system of yours should be carried on.

In my opinion, if we are against casteism, it should
be on all basis and not on certain caste only.

Regards,

Luis Rodrigues



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Bernado Colaco
2005-07-07 08:24:22 UTC
Permalink
Luis has made some interesting comments on the caste
issue. In 61 Goans were supposed to have been
emancipated from the caste.

Education was for all. But why do the puppets allocate
areas for the caste system? Is this not institutional
casteism?

Where is the anti-Portuguese lobby now? Do they have a
clue as to what is happening in Goa, other than eating
watermelons from Parra?

Cornel please comment!



B. Colaco
Post by luis rodrigues
Post by luis rodrigues
Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain
quota
Post by luis rodrigues
is reserved for schedule caste and schedule
tribes. Is
Post by luis rodrigues
Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?
Can anybody give me an explanation on this
please!!
Post by luis rodrigues
Luis Rodrigues
Chumbel / Dubai
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Frederick Noronha (FN)
2005-07-07 08:50:32 UTC
Permalink
This issue has gone far beyond its original subjectline. Anyway, nice to
see a lot of publicity for a venture which one was earlier associated
with. Surely, this will bring in a lot more attention to
Cybermatrimonials ;-)
From: luis rodrigues <lunica99 at yahoo.co.in>
I don't agree to this. The discrimination were meted
out to the ancestors of SC/ST. But why the benefit is
given to the present generation. And if the
discrimination were carried out by the RC Brahmin for
those centuries, then why the hatrate towards the new
generation of RC Brahmin.
Simple. Because the fact that their ancestors worked with servere
handicapps still shows up in the lives of descendents today. You don't
need a scientific survey -- though there are figures, since the 2001
Census onwards -- to show how deep the gap is.

Some communities in India live in worse deprivation than the people of
sub-Saharan Africa. Others have a lifestyle (in terms of quality of
life) that might come close to Europe!

Of course, it's not just a case of "RC Brahmin" and "SC/ST". The Dalits
(as the 'SC/ST' find it sometimes more useful to call themselves) are at
the extreme end of discrimination and social handicaps. But there are
others too (the "intermediary" castes, or the Other Backward Castes, who
have also been subject to some forms of discrminiation earlier and
affirmative action in recent times).
You visit any Govt. office in Goa and see the attitude
of these SC/ST employees. In front of them you feel
that you are a SC/ST. So you decide if this "UNDO"
system of yours should be carried on.
As far as I know, their attitude is no worse than that of the average
government servant. It has also a lot to do with stereotyping that has
led us to believe those who come in on reservations are somehow
inferior. So, a nice form of double-discrimination. Even in their
attempted urge to equality, they will be insulted.

We tend to conveniently forget that reservations -- say to the medical
or engineering college -- is only at the level of admission. All
students then have to pass the same exams!
In my opinion, if we are against casteism, it should
be on all basis and not on certain caste only.discrimination were
carried out by the RC Brahmin for
those centuries, then why the hatrate towards the new
generation of RC Brahmin.
I don't think anyone who is against casteism is criticism just the "RC
Brahmin" as you put it. This criticism of a pugnacious system need not
to be taken personally. It is an ideology or value-system that is being
questioned and criticised; not a group of people based on origins.

FN
Miguel Braganza
2005-07-07 08:51:02 UTC
Permalink
Dear Netters,

I fully agree with the good dotor. We cannot say we want to contain the
caste system , if our postings promote the subject.
........................................................................
.From: "jose colaco" colaco_2 at hotmail.com
Subject: [Goanet]CYBERMATRIMONIALS
From: "Christina Pinto" <christina at goanet.org
Goan RC Brahmin spinster 34 years of age, slim fair, homely, MA in English
Literature, teacher by profession, well settled and only daughter seeks
Bachelors from India or Abroad who are well settled.Caste and community no
bar.Please reply with particulars and photograph to
ourfuturepartner2005 at yahoo.co.uk

=====
I hope that we would discourage this type of caste propagation within Goan
lists. jc

_________________________________________________________________

Borea casta'cho mur're

Viva Goa.
Miguel
Christina Pinto
2005-07-03 08:56:46 UTC
Permalink
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5'2" very fair 30 year old goan catholic girl, doctor working in USA,
looking for a well educated boy from a good family. please contact
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Goan RC lady, currently based in Dubai - She is intelligent, attractive,
has a positive attitude to life and a quiet sense of humour. She is a
mature, down-to-earth professional person and house proud. She is
35 yrs old, 5'5", a graduate, born and brought up in Mumbai and
looking for an educated Catholic bachelor a self-made man, probable
age range 35 - 42 with an inherent need to be a loving and supportive
husband, a respectful son and a doting father. She strongly believes
that marriage is a life time commitment of give and take, of mutual
love, respect and concern for each other. If you are a like minded
individual, my sister would be happy to correspond with you at
dorothie9 at yahoo.com.


Goan RC Brahmin spinster 34 years of age, slim fair, homely, MA in
English Literature, teacher by profession, well settled and only daughter
seeks Bachelors from India or Abroad who are well settled.Caste and
community no bar.Please reply with particulars and photograph to
ourfuturepartner2005 at yahoo.co.uk


Goan Roman Catholic female 34 years old living in Australia. I am good
natured, good hearted, educated and easy to get along with. Ideally
you would have similar qualities, good sense of humour and willing to
live in Australia. Please send your photo and contact on
carpe_diem1230 at hotmail.com


RC Goan Parents invite alliance for their daughter, 35, 5 feet,
graduate fair, sweet, independent,homely, working abroad in the Gulf
with good family values and good family background seeking for
well-settled goan bachelors. Note the girl is coming down in mid
August- Sep. Contact email address at lingoa70 at yahoo.com or Goa
res. -832 2298653


R.C. Spinster, 44 yrs. old, B.sc. graduate, tall, slim, fair, caring and
loving, simple & fun-loving, working as an Officer for L.I.C. in Mumbai.
Would prefer a partner who has similar qualities and age preferred upto
48/49 yrs. Reply can be sent to ophelia_mendoza at yahoo.com.


I'm looking out for a soul-mate for a dear friend, who had a brief marriage
annulled - 30/F, great sense of humour, is good looking, educated, loves
books, children, animals and is currently working as a PA in an MNC
in Goa - In a mate is looking for an educated, well-read, outgoing Goan
RC. He should be open minded, with a good sense of humour and must
have strong family values. If interested, please write in giving details
to: savika_f at yahoo.com"


Spinster 27, employed, seeking suitable match. Parents of a well qualified
27 year old Goan Roman Catholic spinster, 5.3", fair complexion, homely,
from a respectable family and employed in Goa seeks matrimonial alliance
with educated well settled Roman Catholic Goan bachelors, living either
in India or abroad. Interested parents or bachelors could reply to
goanf27 at hotmail.com.


Wanted well settled goan bachelor 31 - 35 yrs. for well settled goan
spinster 30 yrs., M.A., CAIIB, working for a Bank in Bombay. Please
forward details to: sherwinferns at yahoo.com


MALE (Looking for a Bride)

Male 27 , from Panjim Goa, self employed , looking for all types of
relationships contact me at hazephase at gmail.com


Goan Bachelor age 38 years, well educated and well settled, residing in
Canada seeking a suitable life partner preferably from Canada/US. If
interested kindly write to a_travas at yahoo.com for more details


Seeking a suitable match for my brother 31 yrs: Height 5.6ft, very fair
Working in the Middle East as Computer Engineer with good character,
very loving, Caring and Socialise. Seeking a US resident Girl of Goan
origin, she should be fair loving and from respectable family background.
Early marriage. Please Contact me: evincy at yahoo.com or
necyrego at hotmail.com


Goan male, Roman Catholic, living in Australia. I am a 40 year old,
Goan, Roman Catholic, sincere, honest, hardworking and genuine guy
who works and lives in Australia. I am looking for a good natured,
sincere woman who has similar attributes and would be willing to
relocate to Australia. Look forward to hearing from you at
karma1817 at hotmail.com


I'm a Goan Christian, US based (Green Card), 36/5'9" graduate in
Engg., from REC. Where looks are concerned I'll let you be the judge.
Presently working in Washington DC and I have been in the USA for
the last 6 years. A good communicator and an outgoing person with
strong moral background. Worked in Bombay for 6 years before
relocating to the US in 1997. My recent pic is available at
http://a1im.com//photo/hdsouza-25463.jpg and I can be reached
at hdsouza at yahoo.com


RC Goan in upper 30's post-graduate cum professional, well
positioned in Gulf, financially well sound, excellent remuneration
by Indian and Gulf standards, independent with own house, well
balanced, pleasing personality and cheerful disposition, non-smoker
and teetotaller, family oriented seeks affectionate pleasing lady with
sober habits, good social values, reliable and wishing to start a family.
Status, religion, age and caste no bar for right match. Contact
affectionately_yours2005 at yahoo.com


Alliance invited from RC Working girls for a goan boy aged 37 years,
settled in Mumbai and working for a travel agency. He is 5.4". Please
contact on 91 ( 22) 28117695


I'm looking out for a Goan RC spinster, 30-35yrs, Slim, 5'2" to 5'5",
average good looks, graduate, homely, likes cooking, god-fearing &
adjusting nature. For my Brother 37 yrs, 5'11",fair complexion, 65kgs,
graduate, works for Indian AirForce, Loves sports & reading.
Interested Parties Please Contact me at maryanne_masc at hotmail.com


My name is Nnitin, I am from Goa, 28 yrs old currently working in
Africa in a construction company as mechanical engineer. Iintreseted
to find a Hindu girl between the age 21 to 26 for marriage. Please
contactd nitaru_77 at yahoo.co.in.

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2005-07-04 03:35:55 UTC
Permalink
From: "Christina Pinto" <christina at goanet.org>
Subject: [Goanet]CYBERMATRIMONIALS
Date: Sun, 3 Jul 2005 16:24:23 +1000
Goan RC Brahmin spinster 34 years of age, slim fair, homely, MA in English
Literature, teacher by profession, well settled and only daughter seeks
Bachelors from India or Abroad who are well settled.Caste and community no
bar.Please reply with particulars and photograph to
ourfuturepartner2005 at yahoo.co.uk

=====


I hope that we would discourage this type of caste propagation within Goan
lists

just my view

jc

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2005-07-05 04:12:15 UTC
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Why are so many married men reading the Cybermatrimonials in such detail? Most of those who have
commented on the 'RC Brahmin' [SIC] post are married men.

Hmmm..... ;-)))

Regards,
George
Alfred de Tavares
2005-07-05 07:15:35 UTC
Permalink
From: Aloysius D'Souza <aloysius at bom1.vsnl.net.in>
If "caste & community no bar" why does she specify that she is
"Brahmin"????
Elementary, my dear Aloysius, quite so...

Being a conscientious young lady she refuses to become a victim of
inverted discrimination:

Far from flaunting the caste which circumstances beyond her control have
embarrassed her with, she mentions it to give brahmin candidates, that may
meet her requisites but may fecklessly refrain from applying unsure of her
social status, fair bidding chance.

Alfred de T
luis rodrigues
2005-07-06 01:57:24 UTC
Permalink
Hues and cries over a poor dame's request for a 'RC
Brahmin", now what would you say for the
advertisements that appears in local newspapers for
recruitment's in Government Services.

Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain quota
is reserved for schedule caste and schedule tribes. Is
Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?

Can anybody give me an explanation on this please!!

Regards,

Luis Rodrigues
Chumbel / Dubai



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halur rasho
2005-07-06 07:25:31 UTC
Permalink
Are you serious? Reservation for scheduled
caste/tribes is to undo (in a small way) for
discrimination they suffered for centuries. A Brahmin
who proclaims his caste as a sign of superiority is
indulging in discrimination, albeit with much less
effect today. As for the strange hybrid known as RC
Brahmin, the less said of such ridiculous creatures
the better...
Post by luis rodrigues
Hues and cries over a poor dame's request for a 'RC
Brahmin", now what would you say for the
advertisements that appears in local newspapers for
recruitment's in Government Services.
Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain
quota
is reserved for schedule caste and schedule tribes.
Is
Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?
Can anybody give me an explanation on this please!!
Regards,
Luis Rodrigues
Chumbel / Dubai
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Frederick Noronha (FN)
2005-07-06 10:35:43 UTC
Permalink
Do we accept then that there's a difference between affirmative
action -- howsoever ineffective, inadequate and incorrectly applied --
and casteism? Or is it all the same? FN
Post by luis rodrigues
Hues and cries over a poor dame's request for a 'RC
Brahmin", now what would you say for the
advertisements that appears in local newspapers for
recruitment's in Government Services.
Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain quota
is reserved for schedule caste and schedule tribes. Is
Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?
Can anybody give me an explanation on this please!!
Luis Rodrigues
Chumbel / Dubai
Cip Fernandes
2005-07-06 16:37:07 UTC
Permalink
Whatever,

STOP POSTING IMMEDIATELY CYBERMATRIMONIALS MENTIONING THEIR CASTES

Cip
UK

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Of Frederick Noronha (FN)
Sent: 06 July 2005 07:46
To: goanet at goanet.org
Subject: [Goanet]Re: CYBERMATRIMONIALS


Do we accept then that there's a difference between affirmative
action -- howsoever ineffective, inadequate and incorrectly applied --
and casteism? Or is it all the same? FN
Post by luis rodrigues
Hues and cries over a poor dame's request for a 'RC
Brahmin", now what would you say for the
advertisements that appears in local newspapers for
recruitment's in Government Services.
Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain quota
is reserved for schedule caste and schedule tribes. Is
Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?
Can anybody give me an explanation on this please!!
Luis Rodrigues
Chumbel / Dubai
luis rodrigues
2005-07-06 16:38:06 UTC
Permalink
I don't agree to this. The discrimination were meted
out to the ancestors of SC/ST. But why the benefit is
given to the present generation. And if the
discrimination were carried out by the RC Brahmin for
those centuries, then why the hatrate towards the new
generation of RC Brahmin.

You visit any Govt. office in Goa and see the attitude
of these SC/ST employees. In front of them you feel
that you are a SC/ST. So you decide if this "UNDO"
system of yours should be carried on.

In my opinion, if we are against casteism, it should
be on all basis and not on certain caste only.

Regards,

Luis Rodrigues



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Bernado Colaco
2005-07-07 08:24:22 UTC
Permalink
Luis has made some interesting comments on the caste
issue. In 61 Goans were supposed to have been
emancipated from the caste.

Education was for all. But why do the puppets allocate
areas for the caste system? Is this not institutional
casteism?

Where is the anti-Portuguese lobby now? Do they have a
clue as to what is happening in Goa, other than eating
watermelons from Parra?

Cornel please comment!



B. Colaco
Post by luis rodrigues
Post by luis rodrigues
Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain
quota
Post by luis rodrigues
is reserved for schedule caste and schedule
tribes. Is
Post by luis rodrigues
Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?
Can anybody give me an explanation on this
please!!
Post by luis rodrigues
Luis Rodrigues
Chumbel / Dubai
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Frederick Noronha (FN)
2005-07-07 08:50:32 UTC
Permalink
This issue has gone far beyond its original subjectline. Anyway, nice to
see a lot of publicity for a venture which one was earlier associated
with. Surely, this will bring in a lot more attention to
Cybermatrimonials ;-)
From: luis rodrigues <lunica99 at yahoo.co.in>
I don't agree to this. The discrimination were meted
out to the ancestors of SC/ST. But why the benefit is
given to the present generation. And if the
discrimination were carried out by the RC Brahmin for
those centuries, then why the hatrate towards the new
generation of RC Brahmin.
Simple. Because the fact that their ancestors worked with servere
handicapps still shows up in the lives of descendents today. You don't
need a scientific survey -- though there are figures, since the 2001
Census onwards -- to show how deep the gap is.

Some communities in India live in worse deprivation than the people of
sub-Saharan Africa. Others have a lifestyle (in terms of quality of
life) that might come close to Europe!

Of course, it's not just a case of "RC Brahmin" and "SC/ST". The Dalits
(as the 'SC/ST' find it sometimes more useful to call themselves) are at
the extreme end of discrimination and social handicaps. But there are
others too (the "intermediary" castes, or the Other Backward Castes, who
have also been subject to some forms of discrminiation earlier and
affirmative action in recent times).
You visit any Govt. office in Goa and see the attitude
of these SC/ST employees. In front of them you feel
that you are a SC/ST. So you decide if this "UNDO"
system of yours should be carried on.
As far as I know, their attitude is no worse than that of the average
government servant. It has also a lot to do with stereotyping that has
led us to believe those who come in on reservations are somehow
inferior. So, a nice form of double-discrimination. Even in their
attempted urge to equality, they will be insulted.

We tend to conveniently forget that reservations -- say to the medical
or engineering college -- is only at the level of admission. All
students then have to pass the same exams!
In my opinion, if we are against casteism, it should
be on all basis and not on certain caste only.discrimination were
carried out by the RC Brahmin for
those centuries, then why the hatrate towards the new
generation of RC Brahmin.
I don't think anyone who is against casteism is criticism just the "RC
Brahmin" as you put it. This criticism of a pugnacious system need not
to be taken personally. It is an ideology or value-system that is being
questioned and criticised; not a group of people based on origins.

FN
Miguel Braganza
2005-07-07 08:51:02 UTC
Permalink
Dear Netters,

I fully agree with the good dotor. We cannot say we want to contain the
caste system , if our postings promote the subject.
........................................................................
.From: "jose colaco" colaco_2 at hotmail.com
Subject: [Goanet]CYBERMATRIMONIALS
From: "Christina Pinto" <christina at goanet.org
Goan RC Brahmin spinster 34 years of age, slim fair, homely, MA in English
Literature, teacher by profession, well settled and only daughter seeks
Bachelors from India or Abroad who are well settled.Caste and community no
bar.Please reply with particulars and photograph to
ourfuturepartner2005 at yahoo.co.uk

=====
I hope that we would discourage this type of caste propagation within Goan
lists. jc

_________________________________________________________________

Borea casta'cho mur're

Viva Goa.
Miguel
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2005-07-03 08:56:46 UTC
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2005-07-04 03:35:55 UTC
Permalink
From: "Christina Pinto" <christina at goanet.org>
Subject: [Goanet]CYBERMATRIMONIALS
Date: Sun, 3 Jul 2005 16:24:23 +1000
Goan RC Brahmin spinster 34 years of age, slim fair, homely, MA in English
Literature, teacher by profession, well settled and only daughter seeks
Bachelors from India or Abroad who are well settled.Caste and community no
bar.Please reply with particulars and photograph to
ourfuturepartner2005 at yahoo.co.uk

=====


I hope that we would discourage this type of caste propagation within Goan
lists

just my view

jc

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George Pinto
2005-07-05 04:12:15 UTC
Permalink
Why are so many married men reading the Cybermatrimonials in such detail? Most of those who have
commented on the 'RC Brahmin' [SIC] post are married men.

Hmmm..... ;-)))

Regards,
George
Alfred de Tavares
2005-07-05 07:15:35 UTC
Permalink
From: Aloysius D'Souza <aloysius at bom1.vsnl.net.in>
If "caste & community no bar" why does she specify that she is
"Brahmin"????
Elementary, my dear Aloysius, quite so...

Being a conscientious young lady she refuses to become a victim of
inverted discrimination:

Far from flaunting the caste which circumstances beyond her control have
embarrassed her with, she mentions it to give brahmin candidates, that may
meet her requisites but may fecklessly refrain from applying unsure of her
social status, fair bidding chance.

Alfred de T
luis rodrigues
2005-07-06 01:57:24 UTC
Permalink
Hues and cries over a poor dame's request for a 'RC
Brahmin", now what would you say for the
advertisements that appears in local newspapers for
recruitment's in Government Services.

Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain quota
is reserved for schedule caste and schedule tribes. Is
Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?

Can anybody give me an explanation on this please!!

Regards,

Luis Rodrigues
Chumbel / Dubai



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halur rasho
2005-07-06 07:25:31 UTC
Permalink
Are you serious? Reservation for scheduled
caste/tribes is to undo (in a small way) for
discrimination they suffered for centuries. A Brahmin
who proclaims his caste as a sign of superiority is
indulging in discrimination, albeit with much less
effect today. As for the strange hybrid known as RC
Brahmin, the less said of such ridiculous creatures
the better...
Post by luis rodrigues
Hues and cries over a poor dame's request for a 'RC
Brahmin", now what would you say for the
advertisements that appears in local newspapers for
recruitment's in Government Services.
Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain
quota
is reserved for schedule caste and schedule tribes.
Is
Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?
Can anybody give me an explanation on this please!!
Regards,
Luis Rodrigues
Chumbel / Dubai
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Frederick Noronha (FN)
2005-07-06 10:35:43 UTC
Permalink
Do we accept then that there's a difference between affirmative
action -- howsoever ineffective, inadequate and incorrectly applied --
and casteism? Or is it all the same? FN
Post by luis rodrigues
Hues and cries over a poor dame's request for a 'RC
Brahmin", now what would you say for the
advertisements that appears in local newspapers for
recruitment's in Government Services.
Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain quota
is reserved for schedule caste and schedule tribes. Is
Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?
Can anybody give me an explanation on this please!!
Luis Rodrigues
Chumbel / Dubai
Cip Fernandes
2005-07-06 16:37:07 UTC
Permalink
Whatever,

STOP POSTING IMMEDIATELY CYBERMATRIMONIALS MENTIONING THEIR CASTES

Cip
UK

-----Original Message-----
From: goanet-admin at goanet.org [mailto:goanet-admin at goanet.org]On Behalf
Of Frederick Noronha (FN)
Sent: 06 July 2005 07:46
To: goanet at goanet.org
Subject: [Goanet]Re: CYBERMATRIMONIALS


Do we accept then that there's a difference between affirmative
action -- howsoever ineffective, inadequate and incorrectly applied --
and casteism? Or is it all the same? FN
Post by luis rodrigues
Hues and cries over a poor dame's request for a 'RC
Brahmin", now what would you say for the
advertisements that appears in local newspapers for
recruitment's in Government Services.
Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain quota
is reserved for schedule caste and schedule tribes. Is
Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?
Can anybody give me an explanation on this please!!
Luis Rodrigues
Chumbel / Dubai
luis rodrigues
2005-07-06 16:38:06 UTC
Permalink
I don't agree to this. The discrimination were meted
out to the ancestors of SC/ST. But why the benefit is
given to the present generation. And if the
discrimination were carried out by the RC Brahmin for
those centuries, then why the hatrate towards the new
generation of RC Brahmin.

You visit any Govt. office in Goa and see the attitude
of these SC/ST employees. In front of them you feel
that you are a SC/ST. So you decide if this "UNDO"
system of yours should be carried on.

In my opinion, if we are against casteism, it should
be on all basis and not on certain caste only.

Regards,

Luis Rodrigues



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Bernado Colaco
2005-07-07 08:24:22 UTC
Permalink
Luis has made some interesting comments on the caste
issue. In 61 Goans were supposed to have been
emancipated from the caste.

Education was for all. But why do the puppets allocate
areas for the caste system? Is this not institutional
casteism?

Where is the anti-Portuguese lobby now? Do they have a
clue as to what is happening in Goa, other than eating
watermelons from Parra?

Cornel please comment!



B. Colaco
Post by luis rodrigues
Post by luis rodrigues
Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain
quota
Post by luis rodrigues
is reserved for schedule caste and schedule
tribes. Is
Post by luis rodrigues
Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?
Can anybody give me an explanation on this
please!!
Post by luis rodrigues
Luis Rodrigues
Chumbel / Dubai
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Frederick Noronha (FN)
2005-07-07 08:50:32 UTC
Permalink
This issue has gone far beyond its original subjectline. Anyway, nice to
see a lot of publicity for a venture which one was earlier associated
with. Surely, this will bring in a lot more attention to
Cybermatrimonials ;-)
From: luis rodrigues <lunica99 at yahoo.co.in>
I don't agree to this. The discrimination were meted
out to the ancestors of SC/ST. But why the benefit is
given to the present generation. And if the
discrimination were carried out by the RC Brahmin for
those centuries, then why the hatrate towards the new
generation of RC Brahmin.
Simple. Because the fact that their ancestors worked with servere
handicapps still shows up in the lives of descendents today. You don't
need a scientific survey -- though there are figures, since the 2001
Census onwards -- to show how deep the gap is.

Some communities in India live in worse deprivation than the people of
sub-Saharan Africa. Others have a lifestyle (in terms of quality of
life) that might come close to Europe!

Of course, it's not just a case of "RC Brahmin" and "SC/ST". The Dalits
(as the 'SC/ST' find it sometimes more useful to call themselves) are at
the extreme end of discrimination and social handicaps. But there are
others too (the "intermediary" castes, or the Other Backward Castes, who
have also been subject to some forms of discrminiation earlier and
affirmative action in recent times).
You visit any Govt. office in Goa and see the attitude
of these SC/ST employees. In front of them you feel
that you are a SC/ST. So you decide if this "UNDO"
system of yours should be carried on.
As far as I know, their attitude is no worse than that of the average
government servant. It has also a lot to do with stereotyping that has
led us to believe those who come in on reservations are somehow
inferior. So, a nice form of double-discrimination. Even in their
attempted urge to equality, they will be insulted.

We tend to conveniently forget that reservations -- say to the medical
or engineering college -- is only at the level of admission. All
students then have to pass the same exams!
In my opinion, if we are against casteism, it should
be on all basis and not on certain caste only.discrimination were
carried out by the RC Brahmin for
those centuries, then why the hatrate towards the new
generation of RC Brahmin.
I don't think anyone who is against casteism is criticism just the "RC
Brahmin" as you put it. This criticism of a pugnacious system need not
to be taken personally. It is an ideology or value-system that is being
questioned and criticised; not a group of people based on origins.

FN
Miguel Braganza
2005-07-07 08:51:02 UTC
Permalink
Dear Netters,

I fully agree with the good dotor. We cannot say we want to contain the
caste system , if our postings promote the subject.
........................................................................
.From: "jose colaco" colaco_2 at hotmail.com
Subject: [Goanet]CYBERMATRIMONIALS
From: "Christina Pinto" <christina at goanet.org
Goan RC Brahmin spinster 34 years of age, slim fair, homely, MA in English
Literature, teacher by profession, well settled and only daughter seeks
Bachelors from India or Abroad who are well settled.Caste and community no
bar.Please reply with particulars and photograph to
ourfuturepartner2005 at yahoo.co.uk

=====
I hope that we would discourage this type of caste propagation within Goan
lists. jc

_________________________________________________________________

Borea casta'cho mur're

Viva Goa.
Miguel
Christina Pinto
2005-07-03 08:56:46 UTC
Permalink
########################################################################
############ Goanet C Y B E R - M A T R I M O N I A L S ##############
########################################################################
LOOKING OUT FOR a life partner? Circulate your message among thousands
of largely-Goan readers. For a listing in this column send details to
christina at goanet.org with the subject line CYBER-MATRIMONIALS
########################################################################

FEMALE (Looking for a Groom)

Single lady, Goan, 43 yrs, goodlooking, 5"5', executive secretary,
well travelled. Looking for decent, well-settled gentleman 44-52
years, with good family background, having pleasant personality
from India or abroad. Email : lo_f18 at hotmail.com


28 year old attractive RC Goan female, medical professional based
in NYC seeks a professional Catholic boy preferably Goan and
residing in the US or Canada. Email: fernandes at usa.com


Parents of well educated young lady (26 years, Goan, RC) seeks
matrimonial alliance with RC bachelor 27-31 yrs. She is a B.Sc in
Maths, B.Ed qualified Maths & Science teacher in a reputable
secondary school in South Mumbai for the past 4-5 years. 5'1 in
height, she is fair, homely, godfearing, respectful, caring and talented
with a great sense of humour. We are looking for a boy with similar
values (we know it's a tall order but this is our precious daughter)
who is well educated and settled with his own home either abroad
(UK, USA, Australia, Canada) or in Mumbai. Please send your
details to chiquita_dsouza at yahoo.com or chiq79 at hotmail.com
and candida1505 at hotmail.com in it as well. Alternatively please
call us on 0091 222 3717080 or 00 91 989 260 7065. Please
send a recent photograph and we will get back to you as soon as possible.


Roman Catholic, Goan female, 41 yrs, fair, good looking, 5'3",
graduate, executive secretary. Good upbringing, family values. Looking
for decent, well settled gentleman. with good family background having
pleasant personality from India or abroad. Kindly reply with complete
details. Email: verofern2002 at yahoo.com.


5'2" very fair 30 year old goan catholic girl, doctor working in USA,
looking for a well educated boy from a good family. please contact
ftdi at aol.com.


Goan RC lady, currently based in Dubai - She is intelligent, attractive,
has a positive attitude to life and a quiet sense of humour. She is a
mature, down-to-earth professional person and house proud. She is
35 yrs old, 5'5", a graduate, born and brought up in Mumbai and
looking for an educated Catholic bachelor a self-made man, probable
age range 35 - 42 with an inherent need to be a loving and supportive
husband, a respectful son and a doting father. She strongly believes
that marriage is a life time commitment of give and take, of mutual
love, respect and concern for each other. If you are a like minded
individual, my sister would be happy to correspond with you at
dorothie9 at yahoo.com.


Goan RC Brahmin spinster 34 years of age, slim fair, homely, MA in
English Literature, teacher by profession, well settled and only daughter
seeks Bachelors from India or Abroad who are well settled.Caste and
community no bar.Please reply with particulars and photograph to
ourfuturepartner2005 at yahoo.co.uk


Goan Roman Catholic female 34 years old living in Australia. I am good
natured, good hearted, educated and easy to get along with. Ideally
you would have similar qualities, good sense of humour and willing to
live in Australia. Please send your photo and contact on
carpe_diem1230 at hotmail.com


RC Goan Parents invite alliance for their daughter, 35, 5 feet,
graduate fair, sweet, independent,homely, working abroad in the Gulf
with good family values and good family background seeking for
well-settled goan bachelors. Note the girl is coming down in mid
August- Sep. Contact email address at lingoa70 at yahoo.com or Goa
res. -832 2298653


R.C. Spinster, 44 yrs. old, B.sc. graduate, tall, slim, fair, caring and
loving, simple & fun-loving, working as an Officer for L.I.C. in Mumbai.
Would prefer a partner who has similar qualities and age preferred upto
48/49 yrs. Reply can be sent to ophelia_mendoza at yahoo.com.


I'm looking out for a soul-mate for a dear friend, who had a brief marriage
annulled - 30/F, great sense of humour, is good looking, educated, loves
books, children, animals and is currently working as a PA in an MNC
in Goa - In a mate is looking for an educated, well-read, outgoing Goan
RC. He should be open minded, with a good sense of humour and must
have strong family values. If interested, please write in giving details
to: savika_f at yahoo.com"


Spinster 27, employed, seeking suitable match. Parents of a well qualified
27 year old Goan Roman Catholic spinster, 5.3", fair complexion, homely,
from a respectable family and employed in Goa seeks matrimonial alliance
with educated well settled Roman Catholic Goan bachelors, living either
in India or abroad. Interested parents or bachelors could reply to
goanf27 at hotmail.com.


Wanted well settled goan bachelor 31 - 35 yrs. for well settled goan
spinster 30 yrs., M.A., CAIIB, working for a Bank in Bombay. Please
forward details to: sherwinferns at yahoo.com


MALE (Looking for a Bride)

Male 27 , from Panjim Goa, self employed , looking for all types of
relationships contact me at hazephase at gmail.com


Goan Bachelor age 38 years, well educated and well settled, residing in
Canada seeking a suitable life partner preferably from Canada/US. If
interested kindly write to a_travas at yahoo.com for more details


Seeking a suitable match for my brother 31 yrs: Height 5.6ft, very fair
Working in the Middle East as Computer Engineer with good character,
very loving, Caring and Socialise. Seeking a US resident Girl of Goan
origin, she should be fair loving and from respectable family background.
Early marriage. Please Contact me: evincy at yahoo.com or
necyrego at hotmail.com


Goan male, Roman Catholic, living in Australia. I am a 40 year old,
Goan, Roman Catholic, sincere, honest, hardworking and genuine guy
who works and lives in Australia. I am looking for a good natured,
sincere woman who has similar attributes and would be willing to
relocate to Australia. Look forward to hearing from you at
karma1817 at hotmail.com


I'm a Goan Christian, US based (Green Card), 36/5'9" graduate in
Engg., from REC. Where looks are concerned I'll let you be the judge.
Presently working in Washington DC and I have been in the USA for
the last 6 years. A good communicator and an outgoing person with
strong moral background. Worked in Bombay for 6 years before
relocating to the US in 1997. My recent pic is available at
http://a1im.com//photo/hdsouza-25463.jpg and I can be reached
at hdsouza at yahoo.com


RC Goan in upper 30's post-graduate cum professional, well
positioned in Gulf, financially well sound, excellent remuneration
by Indian and Gulf standards, independent with own house, well
balanced, pleasing personality and cheerful disposition, non-smoker
and teetotaller, family oriented seeks affectionate pleasing lady with
sober habits, good social values, reliable and wishing to start a family.
Status, religion, age and caste no bar for right match. Contact
affectionately_yours2005 at yahoo.com


Alliance invited from RC Working girls for a goan boy aged 37 years,
settled in Mumbai and working for a travel agency. He is 5.4". Please
contact on 91 ( 22) 28117695


I'm looking out for a Goan RC spinster, 30-35yrs, Slim, 5'2" to 5'5",
average good looks, graduate, homely, likes cooking, god-fearing &
adjusting nature. For my Brother 37 yrs, 5'11",fair complexion, 65kgs,
graduate, works for Indian AirForce, Loves sports & reading.
Interested Parties Please Contact me at maryanne_masc at hotmail.com


My name is Nnitin, I am from Goa, 28 yrs old currently working in
Africa in a construction company as mechanical engineer. Iintreseted
to find a Hindu girl between the age 21 to 26 for marriage. Please
contactd nitaru_77 at yahoo.co.in.

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2005-07-04 03:35:55 UTC
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From: "Christina Pinto" <christina at goanet.org>
Subject: [Goanet]CYBERMATRIMONIALS
Date: Sun, 3 Jul 2005 16:24:23 +1000
Goan RC Brahmin spinster 34 years of age, slim fair, homely, MA in English
Literature, teacher by profession, well settled and only daughter seeks
Bachelors from India or Abroad who are well settled.Caste and community no
bar.Please reply with particulars and photograph to
ourfuturepartner2005 at yahoo.co.uk

=====


I hope that we would discourage this type of caste propagation within Goan
lists

just my view

jc

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2005-07-05 04:12:15 UTC
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Why are so many married men reading the Cybermatrimonials in such detail? Most of those who have
commented on the 'RC Brahmin' [SIC] post are married men.

Hmmm..... ;-)))

Regards,
George
Alfred de Tavares
2005-07-05 07:15:35 UTC
Permalink
From: Aloysius D'Souza <aloysius at bom1.vsnl.net.in>
If "caste & community no bar" why does she specify that she is
"Brahmin"????
Elementary, my dear Aloysius, quite so...

Being a conscientious young lady she refuses to become a victim of
inverted discrimination:

Far from flaunting the caste which circumstances beyond her control have
embarrassed her with, she mentions it to give brahmin candidates, that may
meet her requisites but may fecklessly refrain from applying unsure of her
social status, fair bidding chance.

Alfred de T
luis rodrigues
2005-07-06 01:57:24 UTC
Permalink
Hues and cries over a poor dame's request for a 'RC
Brahmin", now what would you say for the
advertisements that appears in local newspapers for
recruitment's in Government Services.

Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain quota
is reserved for schedule caste and schedule tribes. Is
Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?

Can anybody give me an explanation on this please!!

Regards,

Luis Rodrigues
Chumbel / Dubai



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halur rasho
2005-07-06 07:25:31 UTC
Permalink
Are you serious? Reservation for scheduled
caste/tribes is to undo (in a small way) for
discrimination they suffered for centuries. A Brahmin
who proclaims his caste as a sign of superiority is
indulging in discrimination, albeit with much less
effect today. As for the strange hybrid known as RC
Brahmin, the less said of such ridiculous creatures
the better...
Post by luis rodrigues
Hues and cries over a poor dame's request for a 'RC
Brahmin", now what would you say for the
advertisements that appears in local newspapers for
recruitment's in Government Services.
Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain
quota
is reserved for schedule caste and schedule tribes.
Is
Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?
Can anybody give me an explanation on this please!!
Regards,
Luis Rodrigues
Chumbel / Dubai
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Frederick Noronha (FN)
2005-07-06 10:35:43 UTC
Permalink
Do we accept then that there's a difference between affirmative
action -- howsoever ineffective, inadequate and incorrectly applied --
and casteism? Or is it all the same? FN
Post by luis rodrigues
Hues and cries over a poor dame's request for a 'RC
Brahmin", now what would you say for the
advertisements that appears in local newspapers for
recruitment's in Government Services.
Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain quota
is reserved for schedule caste and schedule tribes. Is
Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?
Can anybody give me an explanation on this please!!
Luis Rodrigues
Chumbel / Dubai
Cip Fernandes
2005-07-06 16:37:07 UTC
Permalink
Whatever,

STOP POSTING IMMEDIATELY CYBERMATRIMONIALS MENTIONING THEIR CASTES

Cip
UK

-----Original Message-----
From: goanet-admin at goanet.org [mailto:goanet-admin at goanet.org]On Behalf
Of Frederick Noronha (FN)
Sent: 06 July 2005 07:46
To: goanet at goanet.org
Subject: [Goanet]Re: CYBERMATRIMONIALS


Do we accept then that there's a difference between affirmative
action -- howsoever ineffective, inadequate and incorrectly applied --
and casteism? Or is it all the same? FN
Post by luis rodrigues
Hues and cries over a poor dame's request for a 'RC
Brahmin", now what would you say for the
advertisements that appears in local newspapers for
recruitment's in Government Services.
Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain quota
is reserved for schedule caste and schedule tribes. Is
Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?
Can anybody give me an explanation on this please!!
Luis Rodrigues
Chumbel / Dubai
luis rodrigues
2005-07-06 16:38:06 UTC
Permalink
I don't agree to this. The discrimination were meted
out to the ancestors of SC/ST. But why the benefit is
given to the present generation. And if the
discrimination were carried out by the RC Brahmin for
those centuries, then why the hatrate towards the new
generation of RC Brahmin.

You visit any Govt. office in Goa and see the attitude
of these SC/ST employees. In front of them you feel
that you are a SC/ST. So you decide if this "UNDO"
system of yours should be carried on.

In my opinion, if we are against casteism, it should
be on all basis and not on certain caste only.

Regards,

Luis Rodrigues



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Bernado Colaco
2005-07-07 08:24:22 UTC
Permalink
Luis has made some interesting comments on the caste
issue. In 61 Goans were supposed to have been
emancipated from the caste.

Education was for all. But why do the puppets allocate
areas for the caste system? Is this not institutional
casteism?

Where is the anti-Portuguese lobby now? Do they have a
clue as to what is happening in Goa, other than eating
watermelons from Parra?

Cornel please comment!



B. Colaco
Post by luis rodrigues
Post by luis rodrigues
Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain
quota
Post by luis rodrigues
is reserved for schedule caste and schedule
tribes. Is
Post by luis rodrigues
Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?
Can anybody give me an explanation on this
please!!
Post by luis rodrigues
Luis Rodrigues
Chumbel / Dubai
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Frederick Noronha (FN)
2005-07-07 08:50:32 UTC
Permalink
This issue has gone far beyond its original subjectline. Anyway, nice to
see a lot of publicity for a venture which one was earlier associated
with. Surely, this will bring in a lot more attention to
Cybermatrimonials ;-)
From: luis rodrigues <lunica99 at yahoo.co.in>
I don't agree to this. The discrimination were meted
out to the ancestors of SC/ST. But why the benefit is
given to the present generation. And if the
discrimination were carried out by the RC Brahmin for
those centuries, then why the hatrate towards the new
generation of RC Brahmin.
Simple. Because the fact that their ancestors worked with servere
handicapps still shows up in the lives of descendents today. You don't
need a scientific survey -- though there are figures, since the 2001
Census onwards -- to show how deep the gap is.

Some communities in India live in worse deprivation than the people of
sub-Saharan Africa. Others have a lifestyle (in terms of quality of
life) that might come close to Europe!

Of course, it's not just a case of "RC Brahmin" and "SC/ST". The Dalits
(as the 'SC/ST' find it sometimes more useful to call themselves) are at
the extreme end of discrimination and social handicaps. But there are
others too (the "intermediary" castes, or the Other Backward Castes, who
have also been subject to some forms of discrminiation earlier and
affirmative action in recent times).
You visit any Govt. office in Goa and see the attitude
of these SC/ST employees. In front of them you feel
that you are a SC/ST. So you decide if this "UNDO"
system of yours should be carried on.
As far as I know, their attitude is no worse than that of the average
government servant. It has also a lot to do with stereotyping that has
led us to believe those who come in on reservations are somehow
inferior. So, a nice form of double-discrimination. Even in their
attempted urge to equality, they will be insulted.

We tend to conveniently forget that reservations -- say to the medical
or engineering college -- is only at the level of admission. All
students then have to pass the same exams!
In my opinion, if we are against casteism, it should
be on all basis and not on certain caste only.discrimination were
carried out by the RC Brahmin for
those centuries, then why the hatrate towards the new
generation of RC Brahmin.
I don't think anyone who is against casteism is criticism just the "RC
Brahmin" as you put it. This criticism of a pugnacious system need not
to be taken personally. It is an ideology or value-system that is being
questioned and criticised; not a group of people based on origins.

FN
Miguel Braganza
2005-07-07 08:51:02 UTC
Permalink
Dear Netters,

I fully agree with the good dotor. We cannot say we want to contain the
caste system , if our postings promote the subject.
........................................................................
.From: "jose colaco" colaco_2 at hotmail.com
Subject: [Goanet]CYBERMATRIMONIALS
From: "Christina Pinto" <christina at goanet.org
Goan RC Brahmin spinster 34 years of age, slim fair, homely, MA in English
Literature, teacher by profession, well settled and only daughter seeks
Bachelors from India or Abroad who are well settled.Caste and community no
bar.Please reply with particulars and photograph to
ourfuturepartner2005 at yahoo.co.uk

=====
I hope that we would discourage this type of caste propagation within Goan
lists. jc

_________________________________________________________________

Borea casta'cho mur're

Viva Goa.
Miguel
Christina Pinto
2005-07-03 08:56:46 UTC
Permalink
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well travelled. Looking for decent, well-settled gentleman 44-52
years, with good family background, having pleasant personality
from India or abroad. Email : lo_f18 at hotmail.com


28 year old attractive RC Goan female, medical professional based
in NYC seeks a professional Catholic boy preferably Goan and
residing in the US or Canada. Email: fernandes at usa.com


Parents of well educated young lady (26 years, Goan, RC) seeks
matrimonial alliance with RC bachelor 27-31 yrs. She is a B.Sc in
Maths, B.Ed qualified Maths & Science teacher in a reputable
secondary school in South Mumbai for the past 4-5 years. 5'1 in
height, she is fair, homely, godfearing, respectful, caring and talented
with a great sense of humour. We are looking for a boy with similar
values (we know it's a tall order but this is our precious daughter)
who is well educated and settled with his own home either abroad
(UK, USA, Australia, Canada) or in Mumbai. Please send your
details to chiquita_dsouza at yahoo.com or chiq79 at hotmail.com
and candida1505 at hotmail.com in it as well. Alternatively please
call us on 0091 222 3717080 or 00 91 989 260 7065. Please
send a recent photograph and we will get back to you as soon as possible.


Roman Catholic, Goan female, 41 yrs, fair, good looking, 5'3",
graduate, executive secretary. Good upbringing, family values. Looking
for decent, well settled gentleman. with good family background having
pleasant personality from India or abroad. Kindly reply with complete
details. Email: verofern2002 at yahoo.com.


5'2" very fair 30 year old goan catholic girl, doctor working in USA,
looking for a well educated boy from a good family. please contact
ftdi at aol.com.


Goan RC lady, currently based in Dubai - She is intelligent, attractive,
has a positive attitude to life and a quiet sense of humour. She is a
mature, down-to-earth professional person and house proud. She is
35 yrs old, 5'5", a graduate, born and brought up in Mumbai and
looking for an educated Catholic bachelor a self-made man, probable
age range 35 - 42 with an inherent need to be a loving and supportive
husband, a respectful son and a doting father. She strongly believes
that marriage is a life time commitment of give and take, of mutual
love, respect and concern for each other. If you are a like minded
individual, my sister would be happy to correspond with you at
dorothie9 at yahoo.com.


Goan RC Brahmin spinster 34 years of age, slim fair, homely, MA in
English Literature, teacher by profession, well settled and only daughter
seeks Bachelors from India or Abroad who are well settled.Caste and
community no bar.Please reply with particulars and photograph to
ourfuturepartner2005 at yahoo.co.uk


Goan Roman Catholic female 34 years old living in Australia. I am good
natured, good hearted, educated and easy to get along with. Ideally
you would have similar qualities, good sense of humour and willing to
live in Australia. Please send your photo and contact on
carpe_diem1230 at hotmail.com


RC Goan Parents invite alliance for their daughter, 35, 5 feet,
graduate fair, sweet, independent,homely, working abroad in the Gulf
with good family values and good family background seeking for
well-settled goan bachelors. Note the girl is coming down in mid
August- Sep. Contact email address at lingoa70 at yahoo.com or Goa
res. -832 2298653


R.C. Spinster, 44 yrs. old, B.sc. graduate, tall, slim, fair, caring and
loving, simple & fun-loving, working as an Officer for L.I.C. in Mumbai.
Would prefer a partner who has similar qualities and age preferred upto
48/49 yrs. Reply can be sent to ophelia_mendoza at yahoo.com.


I'm looking out for a soul-mate for a dear friend, who had a brief marriage
annulled - 30/F, great sense of humour, is good looking, educated, loves
books, children, animals and is currently working as a PA in an MNC
in Goa - In a mate is looking for an educated, well-read, outgoing Goan
RC. He should be open minded, with a good sense of humour and must
have strong family values. If interested, please write in giving details
to: savika_f at yahoo.com"


Spinster 27, employed, seeking suitable match. Parents of a well qualified
27 year old Goan Roman Catholic spinster, 5.3", fair complexion, homely,
from a respectable family and employed in Goa seeks matrimonial alliance
with educated well settled Roman Catholic Goan bachelors, living either
in India or abroad. Interested parents or bachelors could reply to
goanf27 at hotmail.com.


Wanted well settled goan bachelor 31 - 35 yrs. for well settled goan
spinster 30 yrs., M.A., CAIIB, working for a Bank in Bombay. Please
forward details to: sherwinferns at yahoo.com


MALE (Looking for a Bride)

Male 27 , from Panjim Goa, self employed , looking for all types of
relationships contact me at hazephase at gmail.com


Goan Bachelor age 38 years, well educated and well settled, residing in
Canada seeking a suitable life partner preferably from Canada/US. If
interested kindly write to a_travas at yahoo.com for more details


Seeking a suitable match for my brother 31 yrs: Height 5.6ft, very fair
Working in the Middle East as Computer Engineer with good character,
very loving, Caring and Socialise. Seeking a US resident Girl of Goan
origin, she should be fair loving and from respectable family background.
Early marriage. Please Contact me: evincy at yahoo.com or
necyrego at hotmail.com


Goan male, Roman Catholic, living in Australia. I am a 40 year old,
Goan, Roman Catholic, sincere, honest, hardworking and genuine guy
who works and lives in Australia. I am looking for a good natured,
sincere woman who has similar attributes and would be willing to
relocate to Australia. Look forward to hearing from you at
karma1817 at hotmail.com


I'm a Goan Christian, US based (Green Card), 36/5'9" graduate in
Engg., from REC. Where looks are concerned I'll let you be the judge.
Presently working in Washington DC and I have been in the USA for
the last 6 years. A good communicator and an outgoing person with
strong moral background. Worked in Bombay for 6 years before
relocating to the US in 1997. My recent pic is available at
http://a1im.com//photo/hdsouza-25463.jpg and I can be reached
at hdsouza at yahoo.com


RC Goan in upper 30's post-graduate cum professional, well
positioned in Gulf, financially well sound, excellent remuneration
by Indian and Gulf standards, independent with own house, well
balanced, pleasing personality and cheerful disposition, non-smoker
and teetotaller, family oriented seeks affectionate pleasing lady with
sober habits, good social values, reliable and wishing to start a family.
Status, religion, age and caste no bar for right match. Contact
affectionately_yours2005 at yahoo.com


Alliance invited from RC Working girls for a goan boy aged 37 years,
settled in Mumbai and working for a travel agency. He is 5.4". Please
contact on 91 ( 22) 28117695


I'm looking out for a Goan RC spinster, 30-35yrs, Slim, 5'2" to 5'5",
average good looks, graduate, homely, likes cooking, god-fearing &
adjusting nature. For my Brother 37 yrs, 5'11",fair complexion, 65kgs,
graduate, works for Indian AirForce, Loves sports & reading.
Interested Parties Please Contact me at maryanne_masc at hotmail.com


My name is Nnitin, I am from Goa, 28 yrs old currently working in
Africa in a construction company as mechanical engineer. Iintreseted
to find a Hindu girl between the age 21 to 26 for marriage. Please
contactd nitaru_77 at yahoo.co.in.

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2005-07-04 03:35:55 UTC
Permalink
From: "Christina Pinto" <christina at goanet.org>
Subject: [Goanet]CYBERMATRIMONIALS
Date: Sun, 3 Jul 2005 16:24:23 +1000
Goan RC Brahmin spinster 34 years of age, slim fair, homely, MA in English
Literature, teacher by profession, well settled and only daughter seeks
Bachelors from India or Abroad who are well settled.Caste and community no
bar.Please reply with particulars and photograph to
ourfuturepartner2005 at yahoo.co.uk

=====


I hope that we would discourage this type of caste propagation within Goan
lists

just my view

jc

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2005-07-05 04:12:15 UTC
Permalink
Why are so many married men reading the Cybermatrimonials in such detail? Most of those who have
commented on the 'RC Brahmin' [SIC] post are married men.

Hmmm..... ;-)))

Regards,
George
Alfred de Tavares
2005-07-05 07:15:35 UTC
Permalink
From: Aloysius D'Souza <aloysius at bom1.vsnl.net.in>
If "caste & community no bar" why does she specify that she is
"Brahmin"????
Elementary, my dear Aloysius, quite so...

Being a conscientious young lady she refuses to become a victim of
inverted discrimination:

Far from flaunting the caste which circumstances beyond her control have
embarrassed her with, she mentions it to give brahmin candidates, that may
meet her requisites but may fecklessly refrain from applying unsure of her
social status, fair bidding chance.

Alfred de T
luis rodrigues
2005-07-06 01:57:24 UTC
Permalink
Hues and cries over a poor dame's request for a 'RC
Brahmin", now what would you say for the
advertisements that appears in local newspapers for
recruitment's in Government Services.

Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain quota
is reserved for schedule caste and schedule tribes. Is
Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?

Can anybody give me an explanation on this please!!

Regards,

Luis Rodrigues
Chumbel / Dubai



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halur rasho
2005-07-06 07:25:31 UTC
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Are you serious? Reservation for scheduled
caste/tribes is to undo (in a small way) for
discrimination they suffered for centuries. A Brahmin
who proclaims his caste as a sign of superiority is
indulging in discrimination, albeit with much less
effect today. As for the strange hybrid known as RC
Brahmin, the less said of such ridiculous creatures
the better...
Post by luis rodrigues
Hues and cries over a poor dame's request for a 'RC
Brahmin", now what would you say for the
advertisements that appears in local newspapers for
recruitment's in Government Services.
Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain
quota
is reserved for schedule caste and schedule tribes.
Is
Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?
Can anybody give me an explanation on this please!!
Regards,
Luis Rodrigues
Chumbel / Dubai
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Frederick Noronha (FN)
2005-07-06 10:35:43 UTC
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Do we accept then that there's a difference between affirmative
action -- howsoever ineffective, inadequate and incorrectly applied --
and casteism? Or is it all the same? FN
Post by luis rodrigues
Hues and cries over a poor dame's request for a 'RC
Brahmin", now what would you say for the
advertisements that appears in local newspapers for
recruitment's in Government Services.
Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain quota
is reserved for schedule caste and schedule tribes. Is
Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?
Can anybody give me an explanation on this please!!
Luis Rodrigues
Chumbel / Dubai
Cip Fernandes
2005-07-06 16:37:07 UTC
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Whatever,

STOP POSTING IMMEDIATELY CYBERMATRIMONIALS MENTIONING THEIR CASTES

Cip
UK

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Do we accept then that there's a difference between affirmative
action -- howsoever ineffective, inadequate and incorrectly applied --
and casteism? Or is it all the same? FN
Post by luis rodrigues
Hues and cries over a poor dame's request for a 'RC
Brahmin", now what would you say for the
advertisements that appears in local newspapers for
recruitment's in Government Services.
Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain quota
is reserved for schedule caste and schedule tribes. Is
Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?
Can anybody give me an explanation on this please!!
Luis Rodrigues
Chumbel / Dubai
luis rodrigues
2005-07-06 16:38:06 UTC
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I don't agree to this. The discrimination were meted
out to the ancestors of SC/ST. But why the benefit is
given to the present generation. And if the
discrimination were carried out by the RC Brahmin for
those centuries, then why the hatrate towards the new
generation of RC Brahmin.

You visit any Govt. office in Goa and see the attitude
of these SC/ST employees. In front of them you feel
that you are a SC/ST. So you decide if this "UNDO"
system of yours should be carried on.

In my opinion, if we are against casteism, it should
be on all basis and not on certain caste only.

Regards,

Luis Rodrigues



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Bernado Colaco
2005-07-07 08:24:22 UTC
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Luis has made some interesting comments on the caste
issue. In 61 Goans were supposed to have been
emancipated from the caste.

Education was for all. But why do the puppets allocate
areas for the caste system? Is this not institutional
casteism?

Where is the anti-Portuguese lobby now? Do they have a
clue as to what is happening in Goa, other than eating
watermelons from Parra?

Cornel please comment!



B. Colaco
Post by luis rodrigues
Post by luis rodrigues
Why do the Govt. publicly advertise that certain
quota
Post by luis rodrigues
is reserved for schedule caste and schedule
tribes. Is
Post by luis rodrigues
Govt. not openly favouring and following casteism?
Can anybody give me an explanation on this
please!!
Post by luis rodrigues
Luis Rodrigues
Chumbel / Dubai
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Frederick Noronha (FN)
2005-07-07 08:50:32 UTC
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This issue has gone far beyond its original subjectline. Anyway, nice to
see a lot of publicity for a venture which one was earlier associated
with. Surely, this will bring in a lot more attention to
Cybermatrimonials ;-)
From: luis rodrigues <lunica99 at yahoo.co.in>
I don't agree to this. The discrimination were meted
out to the ancestors of SC/ST. But why the benefit is
given to the present generation. And if the
discrimination were carried out by the RC Brahmin for
those centuries, then why the hatrate towards the new
generation of RC Brahmin.
Simple. Because the fact that their ancestors worked with servere
handicapps still shows up in the lives of descendents today. You don't
need a scientific survey -- though there are figures, since the 2001
Census onwards -- to show how deep the gap is.

Some communities in India live in worse deprivation than the people of
sub-Saharan Africa. Others have a lifestyle (in terms of quality of
life) that might come close to Europe!

Of course, it's not just a case of "RC Brahmin" and "SC/ST". The Dalits
(as the 'SC/ST' find it sometimes more useful to call themselves) are at
the extreme end of discrimination and social handicaps. But there are
others too (the "intermediary" castes, or the Other Backward Castes, who
have also been subject to some forms of discrminiation earlier and
affirmative action in recent times).
You visit any Govt. office in Goa and see the attitude
of these SC/ST employees. In front of them you feel
that you are a SC/ST. So you decide if this "UNDO"
system of yours should be carried on.
As far as I know, their attitude is no worse than that of the average
government servant. It has also a lot to do with stereotyping that has
led us to believe those who come in on reservations are somehow
inferior. So, a nice form of double-discrimination. Even in their
attempted urge to equality, they will be insulted.

We tend to conveniently forget that reservations -- say to the medical
or engineering college -- is only at the level of admission. All
students then have to pass the same exams!
In my opinion, if we are against casteism, it should
be on all basis and not on certain caste only.discrimination were
carried out by the RC Brahmin for
those centuries, then why the hatrate towards the new
generation of RC Brahmin.
I don't think anyone who is against casteism is criticism just the "RC
Brahmin" as you put it. This criticism of a pugnacious system need not
to be taken personally. It is an ideology or value-system that is being
questioned and criticised; not a group of people based on origins.

FN
Miguel Braganza
2005-07-07 08:51:02 UTC
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Dear Netters,

I fully agree with the good dotor. We cannot say we want to contain the
caste system , if our postings promote the subject.
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.From: "jose colaco" colaco_2 at hotmail.com
Subject: [Goanet]CYBERMATRIMONIALS
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I hope that we would discourage this type of caste propagation within Goan
lists. jc

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Viva Goa.
Miguel
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2005-07-03 08:56:46 UTC
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From: "Christina Pinto" <christina at goanet.org>
Subject: [Goanet]CYBERMATRIMONIALS
Date: Sun, 3 Jul 2005 16:24:23 +1000
Goan RC Brahmin spinster 34 years of age, slim fair, homely, MA in English
Literature, teacher by profession, well settled and only daughter seeks
Bachelors from India or Abroad who are well settled.Caste and community no
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I hope that we would discourage this type of caste propagation within Goan
lists

just my view

jc

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2005-07-05 04:12:15 UTC
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Why are so many married men reading the Cybermatrimonials in such detail? Most of those who have
commented on the 'RC Brahmin' [SIC] post are married men.

Hmmm..... ;-)))

Regards,
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